Sep 23, 2026 · 45 min · 12 segments
Doug and Ben discuss plans for the season, life changes, and promises while enjoying Sauvignon Blanc and Mexican lager. Cheers to Season 4!…
Benjamin Michael SouthHostBut yeah, Doug, how do you feel about broken promises? Where does your
mind
I think I'm an expert at it, actually.
So you came to the right person.
Let's
That's right.
That's right.
Well, so here's, so here's, I think what I'll say about a lot of that is intention and follow through are two very different things.
And oftentimes intention in the heat of the moment and in excitement can promise, like we said, can make some big things want to happen, right? This is especially true for people that suffer from ADHD.
We tend to
Okay.
with that one.
Okay.
So typically people that are neurodiverse rather than neurotypical people, follow through becomes really difficult because what happens is when our attention and our intention changes, when it shifts, right? When there are things that...
Take it away.
Or when a task becomes boring or uninteresting, when we don't get those dopamine responses that hit in our brain again, it's really hard to make something happen.
Case in point, I have an opera that I have been working on for like three years, maybe four.
But yeah, Doug, how do you feel about broken promises? Where does your
mind
I think I'm an expert at it, actually.
So you came to the right person.
Let's
That's right.
That's right.
Well, so here's, so here's, I think what I'll say about a lot of that is intention and follow through are two very different things.
And oftentimes intention in the heat of the moment and in excitement can promise, like we said, can make some big things want to happen, right? This is especially true for people that suffer from ADHD.
We tend to
Okay.
with that one.
Okay.
So typically people that are neurodiverse rather than neurotypical people, follow through becomes really difficult because what happens is when our attention and our intention changes, when it shifts, right? When there are things that...
Take it away.
Or when a task becomes boring or uninteresting, when we don't get those dopamine responses that hit in our brain again, it's really hard to make something happen.
Case in point, I have an opera that I have been working on for like three years, maybe four.
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