Convo #247 | If You Want To Change Them—They're Not Your Person
Jul 24, 2026 · 11 min · 5 segments
So many relationships began with one dangerous belief: *"**They'll change**."* We convince ourselves that if they just become a little more emotionally available, more ambitious, more committed…
So many relationships began with one dangerous belief: *"**They'll change**."* We convince ourselves that if they just become a little more emotionally available, more ambitious, more committed, more healed, then everything will work out. But love was never meant to be built on potential. If they never changed—not one thing—would you still choose them exactly as they are today? If the answer is no, they're not your person. **Listen now!** *If you're led by God to pour into this work, you can use the links below. Thank you in advance for honoring the call and supporting this mission.* **Paypal:** Jo @ Thee Ultimate Love Letter or **Venmo:** @JoGalvan- *Thank you again.* **I have a new book:** Fake Ass Vegan: A Book on Balance *Fake Ass Vegan: A Book On Balance—* explores the way we consume through food, fashion, and even the beliefs we carry, and how living in true balance with God—with each other, opens the door to harmony, to peace, to endless possibility. Our book is available now on Amazon. Thank you so much in advance for checking it out! ***Thee Ultimate Love Letter*** has official merch! Check out the collection on: TULL.Shop While you're there, explore our **World Treasure** **Collection**—an exclusive selection of beautifully curated treasures I personally gathered during my travels around the world. I own one of every item in this collection, making it a shared experience. Wanna impact Thee world further with me? We have a brand new beautiful partnership with 4Ocean to help with the removal of plastic from our oceans, rivers and coastlines. Every item purchased removes at least 5 lbs. of plastic. Thee smallest waves often lead to Thee greatest impacts! The link below contains a special discount code as a "Thank you" in advance for doing your part to helping build a cleaner world for marine life and ourselves. 4Ocean Discount Link If you desire achieving something specific that has been escaping you, please reach out - I'm gifting one-on-one conversations to help serve our growing community. Please reach me on our blog site: Thee Ultimate Love Letter \*limited time offer* Thank you for listening! Jo.
So many relationships began with one dangerous belief: *"**They'll change**."* We convince ourselves that if they just become a little more emotionally available, more ambitious, more committed…
