Asking For Help Costs More Than Money

Honestly-

Okay.

-asking for help is terrifying because it means admitting you can't fully control the outcome anymore.

And for a lot of high performers, that feels like losing.

What's got you two thinking about this topic tonight?

Is a struggle for a lot of us.

It's a struggle for me.

It's a struggle for a lot-- everybody, I would say.

I mean, there is that small percentage out there that don't give a fuck about...

They'll ask, you know, any Joe Schmo anytime of day.

So I'm not really like that.

My asking for help is rare, and my asking for help is strategically planned and plotted.

And then when I get to a point where it's the, the stress is just boiling down and, like, the pressure's on, the deadline's coming, you know, everything is, like, there, you-- I turn into a different...

I alter myself a little bit.

I go into desperado mode, the desperado mode where I'm like, "All right.

I knew I, I told myself I was never gonna ask this bitch for help, you know, but now here I am, and I need to ask this bitch for help.

So g- bye, pride.

See you later, pride.

Ego, w-we-- you're gone too.

We're just gonna have to just do it because we need to get this shit done, and we are desperately desperate for help." So that's, that's where it comes, comes down to.

And unfortunately, very-- it happens to the best of us.

It happens to all of us.

If you go through life and you haven't had a situation where you didn't ask for help, then go you.

But, like, the rest of us don't have that.

And it just amazes me when they say that you can find the true color when you're pregnant, when you have a baby.