Aug 27, 2026 · 29 min · 15 segments
Did you know that men are a breed of dog? Did you also know that it's your responsibility to dictate how you deserve to be treated in a world where men already feel entitled to overriding your rules?…
Chidera EggerueHost
There's this idea that, you know, it's unethical, or if you have to train a man, then doesn't that sound like a rather forceful environment? No, it's not, actually, because we need to go back to the foundational basics of biology.
And I don't mean biology in the sense that men have sperm and women have eggs, I mean biology as in when we observe the male species across various living creatures, what we notice in common is a strong pattern where the male creatures are there to serve, they are there to play a functional role, and most importantly, they take and follow instructions from the female species.
So we can use bumblebees as a good example, because I think everyone understands to a certain extent bumblebees and how they work.
So when you think about a beehive, where there's lots of honey and lots of bees, we have to understand that male bees are drones, right? And a drone essentially is there to follow instructions, follow orders, and execute based on what you've been told to do.
So when you think about a beehive, right, there are various roles that the bees have in the hive.
Other bees are assigned the role of communicating between other bees to keep a smooth system in operation.
When we observe other key behaviors in nature pertaining to the male species, we can see there's a prevalent pattern in male species actually being the ones who seek attention and validation from the female species.
When we look at peacocks, for example, it's the male peacock that has the flamboyant feathers.
The male peacock has the responsibility to not just prove that it's attractive, but it needs to prove that it can protect, and usually it proves its ability to protect through the span of its wings.
Aren't my wings beautiful? Don't my wings make you want to fuck me? That's basically what male peacocks do.
Similarly, in other bird species, we see that the male birds are the ones doing the dancing and the elaborate performing to convince the female bird to have sex.
So when we are talking about training a man, we need to understand that there are already foundations put in place in the world we live in from a biological level that normalizes this.
It's just that we are a socialized group of creatures, so despite biology, we have our own means and methods of integrating with each other and navigating society as a whole, leading to the idea that a lot of people don't believe in men having to be the pick mes.
A lot of people have it the other way around, where they think women are the ones who are supposed to impress men and show men how much we deserve to be loved, when actually it's the other way around.
Okay? The same way the male peacock has to spread its wings and show how much it can protect the female, and show how intricate and elaborate its wing design is, is the same way a male human being needs to show me how much he can protect me, and that's usually financial.
There's this idea that, you know, it's unethical, or if you have to train a man, then doesn't that sound like a rather forceful environment? No, it's not, actually, because we need to go back to the foundational basics of biology.
And I don't mean biology in the sense that men have sperm and women have eggs, I mean biology as in when we observe the male species across various living creatures, what we notice in common is a strong pattern where the male creatures are there to serve, they are there to play a functional role, and most importantly, they take and follow instructions from the female species.
So we can use bumblebees as a good example, because I think everyone understands to a certain extent bumblebees and how they work.
So when you think about a beehive, where there's lots of honey and lots of bees, we have to understand that male bees are drones, right? And a drone essentially is there to follow instructions, follow orders, and execute based on what you've been told to do.
So when you think about a beehive, right, there are various roles that the bees have in the hive.
Other bees are assigned the role of communicating between other bees to keep a smooth system in operation.
When we observe other key behaviors in nature pertaining to the male species, we can see there's a prevalent pattern in male species actually being the ones who seek attention and validation from the female species.
When we look at peacocks, for example, it's the male peacock that has the flamboyant feathers.
The male peacock has the responsibility to not just prove that it's attractive, but it needs to prove that it can protect, and usually it proves its ability to protect through the span of its wings.
Aren't my wings beautiful? Don't my wings make you want to fuck me? That's basically what male peacocks do.
Similarly, in other bird species, we see that the male birds are the ones doing the dancing and the elaborate performing to convince the female bird to have sex.
So when we are talking about training a man, we need to understand that there are already foundations put in place in the world we live in from a biological level that normalizes this.
It's just that we are a socialized group of creatures, so despite biology, we have our own means and methods of integrating with each other and navigating society as a whole, leading to the idea that a lot of people don't believe in men having to be the pick mes.
A lot of people have it the other way around, where they think women are the ones who are supposed to impress men and show men how much we deserve to be loved, when actually it's the other way around.
Okay? The same way the male peacock has to spread its wings and show how much it can protect the female, and show how intricate and elaborate its wing design is, is the same way a male human being needs to show me how much he can protect me, and that's usually financial.
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