Your Venus Gates: The Values and Principles in Your Relationships

And now let's dive into Venus.

Grab your chart if you're not driving, and let's learn all about your Venus, what makes you you on an even deeper level, and the sexiness behind your values and your relationships and all the things.

So let's talk about Venus.

When we hear people talk about our Venus placements, we think love, romance, relationships, right? But there's so much more at- than that.

In human design, the Venus placements are all about your values, your principles, your boundaries, your morality, what you believe is correct or incorrect, and this shows you where life teaches you through relationships, through self-worth, through love, and the standards that you hold yourself and others to.

So think of Venus as what you value most deeply, your unconscious and conscious moral codes, your relationship lessons, your self-worth themes, where you can become judgmental when in shadow.

I definitely have seen mine, which I will explain a little bit later, being me looking at others with judgment because they don't have the same values, right? And they can really help you cultivate true alignment, not just within relationships, but within yourself.

But the values and the principles that shape how you relate to yourself and to others are what Venus is all about.

So that's why we think of it as relationships and romance.

It's because we are going to naturally gravitate toward people who share similar values or who are showing us something that reflects the values that we have in our Venus, and we're very attracted to that.

So looking at your chart, this is how you find Venus.

You're gonna have two placements, the personality side on the right and the design side, which is more of the body unconscious part of you, on the left.

The Venus symbol is a circle with a small cross underneath.

You tend to see it in any feminine types of...

I was gonna say scripture, ba- maybe.

No, I mean, like, storytelling, or people who work in the feminine industry use it a lot.

You can also just Google it.

If you're like, "I don't know which one it is," Google the Venus hieroglyph and you will see it.

Let's go dive into your personality Venus first, because this is your conscious Venus.

This is the Venus energy that you're usually aware of.

It influences the values you consciously identify with, what you admire in others, what attracts you to people and really situations, and the standards that you intentionally try to live by.

So you can often recognize these themes in your thoughts, in your preferences, your relationship patterns, right? So that is the personality side.

Now, if you look at the design side on the left, this is your unconscious Venus, and this can sometimes be more powerful because it's operating beneath awareness.

And this is reflecting deep subconscious values, hidden relationship patterns, core conditioning themes, the standards that your body naturally lives by, and lessons that others often see in you before you do.

That's honestly, if there's anything that I could wrap up in a bow and explain about the design side, our body side of our chart, that's what it is, is the whole left, the whole body is, like, what people see in you before you do.