May 21, 2026 · 1 hr 4 min · 12 segments
We're back on The Mail-In with Brett Merriman and Randy Trembacki in the co-host chair. Here's what we've got this week: 1. Am I overreacting about my soon-to-be mother-in-law pressuring us in wedding…
Our wedding is over a year away, Randy, and she's been pressuring us to send out save the dates, even when we're out of the country on vacation.
As we were putting them together, she found our wedding website online and shared it with her family, our aunts, uncles, et cetera, so that we've already gotten RSVPs in before save the dates have gone out.
Am I overreacting? I have talked to my fiance about this, but he doesn't see the issue.
This is a doozy, because, like, you're happy that your mother-in-law is involved and it doesn't seem like she's-
And yeah, this is one of those situations like last week when, um, dealing with a bad mother-in-law.
I was like, "Oh, well, at least the fiance is aware of it." Like, in this one, he's making it seem like it's not a big deal.
You've already had conversation about this, but maybe, like, a serious th- talk about, like, "Hey, like, I'm, I'm happy she's involved, but, like, this is starting to stress me out a little bit, and you need to, like, rein her in."
"And I'm asking you as your future wife, like, I don't want problems, all this, but, like, you need to b- have my back on this if this is..." I was saying-
Our wedding is over a year away, Randy, and she's been pressuring us to send out save the dates, even when we're out of the country on vacation.
As we were putting them together, she found our wedding website online and shared it with her family, our aunts, uncles, et cetera, so that we've already gotten RSVPs in before save the dates have gone out.
Am I overreacting? I have talked to my fiance about this, but he doesn't see the issue.
This is a doozy, because, like, you're happy that your mother-in-law is involved and it doesn't seem like she's-
And yeah, this is one of those situations like last week when, um, dealing with a bad mother-in-law.
I was like, "Oh, well, at least the fiance is aware of it." Like, in this one, he's making it seem like it's not a big deal.
You've already had conversation about this, but maybe, like, a serious th- talk about, like, "Hey, like, I'm, I'm happy she's involved, but, like, this is starting to stress me out a little bit, and you need to, like, rein her in."
"And I'm asking you as your future wife, like, I don't want problems, all this, but, like, you need to b- have my back on this if this is..." I was saying-
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