How to Know if You've Violated Consent - Tools For Accountability & Repair with SafeBAE
Jul 12, 2026 · 1 hr 30 min · 11 segments
Choking during sex is now so normalised among teenagers that most of them don't even clock it as a red flag. That's the world we're navigating — and in this episode, I sat down with the Shel and Drew…
Choking during sex is now so normalised among teenagers that most of them don't even clock it as a red flag. That's the world we're navigating — and in this episode, I sat down with the Shel and Drew from SafeBAE to talk about how we actually help young people find their way through it. We got into the manosphere, the algorithm, porn, and why the US is so far behind places like Australia and the UK when it comes to funding real sex ed. And we talked about SafeBAE's new tool, **Vibe Check** — a choose-your-own-adventure style resource where young people can anonymously reflect on consent, harm, accountability, and repair. No judgment, no adults breathing down their neck. Just a useful tool built for the way teens actually think and communicate. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge! Try out Safe BAE's tool Vibe Check here: https://checkyourvibe.org/ And explore SafeBAE's other incredible work and resources here: https://www.safebae.org/ Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy! \*\** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/ Try out Captain Spice's sticky chai here: https://www.captainspice.com.au/ Get my FREE mini-course P\*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/ Grab a P\*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf\_thelabialounge/ AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is\_from\_webapp=1&sender\_device=pc And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf\_thelabialounge Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm\_medium=unknown&utm\_source=join\_link&utm\_campaign=creatorshare\_creator&utm\_content=copyLink * * * Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Choking during sex is now so normalised among teenagers that most of them don't even clock it as a red flag. That's the world we're navigating — and in this episode, I sat down with the Shel and Drew…
