Jul 9, 2026 · 52 min · 12 segments
Miz Darling returns to discuss how to tell your partner about your fetish, navigate shame and fear, and build healthy relationships around kink. **Book A Consult Call with Amanda**…
Amanda DamesHost
Miss DarlingGuest
Well, again, it's so funny we were gonna talk about female dominance and that sorta thing.
I think women don't realize how often it's a part of themselves that comes out.
She's a switch, but when I see her top, I'm like, oh my God, this is for sure how you order your students around when they're acting up, and we love it.
On July 12th, we're talking about pulling out your inner authentic dom and who that is, and it's so much what you're saying.
I'm a slight sadist, but for the most part, I'm like a mommy dom type, and that is just how I show love, how I care.
As a dominant, like, what I enjoy about it is channeling characters to a certain extent, so I like taking on characters that don't necessarily feel like me.
But if we're talking about authentic domination, yeah, I think if there's ever a part of you that has been ...
This person's been rushing around all day doing stuff, and I'm gonna be like, "Sit down and eat the food that I made you.
If some drunk 20-year-old comes into your bar and wants to butt ahead of you in karaoke, and you're like, "You need to go.
You need to behave yourself right now or I'm calling," you know, whatever it is.
I feel like, for me, I never was a mean girl in high school or junior high, but except maybe in a protective, self-defensive way, but she's in there and I enjoy letting her off leash sometime.
Again, don't think of it as, like, what I have to say and what I have to do, but, like, think of the verb.
Well, again, it's so funny we were gonna talk about female dominance and that sorta thing.
I think women don't realize how often it's a part of themselves that comes out.
She's a switch, but when I see her top, I'm like, oh my God, this is for sure how you order your students around when they're acting up, and we love it.
On July 12th, we're talking about pulling out your inner authentic dom and who that is, and it's so much what you're saying.
I'm a slight sadist, but for the most part, I'm like a mommy dom type, and that is just how I show love, how I care.
As a dominant, like, what I enjoy about it is channeling characters to a certain extent, so I like taking on characters that don't necessarily feel like me.
But if we're talking about authentic domination, yeah, I think if there's ever a part of you that has been ...
This person's been rushing around all day doing stuff, and I'm gonna be like, "Sit down and eat the food that I made you.
If some drunk 20-year-old comes into your bar and wants to butt ahead of you in karaoke, and you're like, "You need to go.
You need to behave yourself right now or I'm calling," you know, whatever it is.
I feel like, for me, I never was a mean girl in high school or junior high, but except maybe in a protective, self-defensive way, but she's in there and I enjoy letting her off leash sometime.
Again, don't think of it as, like, what I have to say and what I have to do, but, like, think of the verb.
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