105. Keltie Maguire on Coaching Insights On Demand

Okay, so the first class I have an insight, a coaching insight or takeaway, a question for you to apply, is from Find Calm in the Storm.

And this on-demand class, uh, for any of you who are not interested in the whole enchilada and don't want to purchase the on-demand fan offering, this would be the class I'd suggest starting with.

And frankly, if you get the on-demand fan offering, you can watch this one first.

But if you're only gonna buy one class and you're feeling totally mixed up, and you're spinning in circles, and you feel like nothing you're doing is bringing you any sense of relief, this is the class for you.

One thing that we need to be really mindful of when we're navigating our kids or childfree decision is the story or are the stories that we are telling ourselves about this decision.

Listen, I get how sucky it is to be mixed up and confused and to feel like you are never going to fig- figure this out.

And also, I hear from a lot of you things like, "I am so terrible at making decisions.

I feel like I'm always gonna be confused.

Um, you know, I can never figure these things out.

I'm totally unclear." And when we are essentially hammering home for ourselves when we think about our beliefs around this decision that we can't make decisions, that we're just perpetually confused, that we can't find our way forward, it becomes really hard to believe that we will ever find our way out.

And so we need to have some sort of faith that, like, I can figure this out.

I do have a track record of having figured things out in my life.

I have made other decisions.

And so I want you to be mindful, like, what sort of stories are you telling yourself about this particular decision and maybe decisions in general? And a question from the Find Calm in the Storm on-demand class that I want to share with you today is, what is one or more big decisions that you've made that you are proud of? You've made big decisions in your life.

You've maybe made the decision to pursue a certain career, or maybe to leave a job that you hate, or to have a really hard conversation with someone, or you've made the big decision to marry your partner.These are all decisions.

You can do hard things.

You can make big decisions.

And so I want you to take a moment, you can hit pause on this podcast if you want, to think about what is one or more big decisions that you've made that you're proud of.

Allow this to serve as a reminder that you can make this big decision too.

I know it feels like an anomaly amongst decisions.

It feels harder, more complex, et cetera, but again, you've got it within you to figure this out.

What is one or more big decisions that you've made that you're proud of? Okay, the next coaching insight I wanna share with you is from our class called Other People On Demand, and this is a class for you if you feel like other people are getting too much in the mix of this decision.

Okay, so the first class I have an insight, a coaching insight or takeaway, a question for you to apply, is from Find Calm in the Storm.

And this on-demand class, uh, for any of you who are not interested in the whole enchilada and don't want to purchase the on-demand fan offering, this would be the class I'd suggest starting with.

And frankly, if you get the on-demand fan offering, you can watch this one first.

But if you're only gonna buy one class and you're feeling totally mixed up, and you're spinning in circles, and you feel like nothing you're doing is bringing you any sense of relief, this is the class for you.

One thing that we need to be really mindful of when we're navigating our kids or childfree decision is the story or are the stories that we are telling ourselves about this decision.

Listen, I get how sucky it is to be mixed up and confused and to feel like you are never going to fig- figure this out.

And also, I hear from a lot of you things like, "I am so terrible at making decisions.

I feel like I'm always gonna be confused.

Um, you know, I can never figure these things out.

I'm totally unclear." And when we are essentially hammering home for ourselves when we think about our beliefs around this decision that we can't make decisions, that we're just perpetually confused, that we can't find our way forward, it becomes really hard to believe that we will ever find our way out.

And so we need to have some sort of faith that, like, I can figure this out.

I do have a track record of having figured things out in my life.

I have made other decisions.

And so I want you to be mindful, like, what sort of stories are you telling yourself about this particular decision and maybe decisions in general? And a question from the Find Calm in the Storm on-demand class that I want to share with you today is, what is one or more big decisions that you've made that you are proud of? You've made big decisions in your life.

You've maybe made the decision to pursue a certain career, or maybe to leave a job that you hate, or to have a really hard conversation with someone, or you've made the big decision to marry your partner.These are all decisions.

You can do hard things.

You can make big decisions.

And so I want you to take a moment, you can hit pause on this podcast if you want, to think about what is one or more big decisions that you've made that you're proud of.

Allow this to serve as a reminder that you can make this big decision too.

I know it feels like an anomaly amongst decisions.

It feels harder, more complex, et cetera, but again, you've got it within you to figure this out.

What is one or more big decisions that you've made that you're proud of? Okay, the next coaching insight I wanna share with you is from our class called Other People On Demand, and this is a class for you if you feel like other people are getting too much in the mix of this decision.