Jul 1, 2026 · 29 min · 11 segments
Welcome back, babes, to The Jillian Murphy Show! Dating apps have officially broken the modern romance industry by turning human connection into a pixelated numbers game. Today, I am sitting down with…
Joel MonteleoneGuestJillian MurphyHostWhy is there no fucking effort right now? That's what's happening on the men's side.

There's 80% of men that are down to put an effort, but you're not really interacting with them.
If I was to open my bumble right now, I have probably 20 conversations that I have not answered.
It's also interesting, fun fact, I've never had a man slide into my DMs, ever.
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Why is there no fucking effort right now? That's what's happening on the men's side.

There's 80% of men that are down to put an effort, but you're not really interacting with them.
If I was to open my bumble right now, I have probably 20 conversations that I have not answered.
It's also interesting, fun fact, I've never had a man slide into my DMs, ever.