Amy FassGuestMary Anne DerschHostAnd we've been taught, you know, by our capitalistic world, like, "Oh, this is your work life, and this is your home life," like, to, like, so that we don't expect...
... like, we can, we, we're allowed to thwart ourselves at work, right? [laughs]
Um, they're all adopted out of foster care, and they're all on very interesting journeys, but one of the things I do is foster puppies, because it's really easy to make them better, [laughs] right? So to, if you want a quick hit, I'm like, oh, you know.
You know? Like, oh, like, you know, they're, they come, these sad little things, and then in two days they're like, "Okay, we're better." We're like, "Yay."
Look, I, I did that, but I think that's why I like that job so much, because it does, it gives me that quick hit, because the kids take y- take a lot of time, and one of the things I do talk a lot is we love people for who they are, not who we want them to be, and I think-
... one of the hardest w- the hardest practice, I wouldn't say hardest, but the one I work on the most is loving my kids for who they are, not who I think they should be-
And that a- act of allowing is, I think, one of the biggest acts of love, right, that you can give a person, your child or anyone, right? Loving a donor, right? I talk all the time about donors.
And that is, like, that is my relationship philosophy, but a- as in work and life, it goes into everything, right? Like, you know what I'm saying? That's just not, I don't just keep that for, like, donors or clients.
And we've been taught, you know, by our capitalistic world, like, "Oh, this is your work life, and this is your home life," like, to, like, so that we don't expect...
... like, we can, we, we're allowed to thwart ourselves at work, right? [laughs]
Um, they're all adopted out of foster care, and they're all on very interesting journeys, but one of the things I do is foster puppies, because it's really easy to make them better, [laughs] right? So to, if you want a quick hit, I'm like, oh, you know.
You know? Like, oh, like, you know, they're, they come, these sad little things, and then in two days they're like, "Okay, we're better." We're like, "Yay."
Look, I, I did that, but I think that's why I like that job so much, because it does, it gives me that quick hit, because the kids take y- take a lot of time, and one of the things I do talk a lot is we love people for who they are, not who we want them to be, and I think-
... one of the hardest w- the hardest practice, I wouldn't say hardest, but the one I work on the most is loving my kids for who they are, not who I think they should be-
And that a- act of allowing is, I think, one of the biggest acts of love, right, that you can give a person, your child or anyone, right? Loving a donor, right? I talk all the time about donors.
And that is, like, that is my relationship philosophy, but a- as in work and life, it goes into everything, right? Like, you know what I'm saying? That's just not, I don't just keep that for, like, donors or clients.
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