092_Navigating Intimacy Challenges: Dr. Nancy Moonstar’s Transformational Approach for Couples

Send us Fan Mail **Host:** Jarvis T. Gray, The Quality Coaching Co. **Guest:** Dr. Nancy Moonstar, author and psychologist, “A Man’s Guide to Intimacy” Episode Highlights Introduction - Jarvis T. Gray welcomes listeners to the Health Biz Spotlight series, focusing on healthcare and wellness entrepreneurs. (00:00) - Dr. Nancy Moonstar is introduced as an author and psychologist specializing in men's intimacy and connection. Dr. Nancy Moonstar’s Path to Intimacy Coaching - Five threads led to her current work, including: - Personal online dating experiences. - Early career questions from men about sexuality and masculinity. - Turning her continuing education focus toward men’s sexual health. - Learning about “stages” of intimacy from academic sources. - Work in the prison system with men grappling with intimacy and boundary issues. - The Me Too movement galvanized her to act, aiding men to heal and improve relationships. (02:17) - Dr. Nancy Moonstar shares her “five stages of intimacy” framework. (04:32) The Impact of Dr. Nancy Moonstar’s Work - Men who work with her experience: - Improved communication and connection with partners. - Acceptance and confidence regarding their intimate selves. - The courage to discuss sex and romance openly. - Rituals—small, consistent actions—are key to fostering intimacy. - Feedback from clients: Men feel understood, encouraged, and experience shifts in how women respond to them. (11:14) Practical Tips for Men and Couples - How men can open conversations about intimacy and romance. - The power of rituals like shared meals, breathing together, and daily check-ins. - The importance of introducing novelty and attentiveness to their partners. (14:03) Business Growth & The Challenge of Selling Services - Dr. Nancy Moonstar expresses discomfort and fear around “selling.” - Jarvis T. Gray reframes selling as “invitation” to solve problems. - Discussion of clinical confidence, positioning, and building a market-dominating proposition (ex: Domino’s 30-min pizza promise). (24:09) - Suggestions for naming offers to highlight results, e.g. “Better Sex For Life Program.” (37:01) Developing and Selling the Year-Long Couples Program - Dr. Nancy Moonstar describes her immersive year-long, virtual couples coaching program. - Jumpstart weekend via Zoom. - Ongoing monthly coaching, email support, and emergency calls. - Tailored lessons addressing each couple’s unique pain points. - Target client: Heterosexual couples (but applicable to all), especially men committed to meaningful personal growth and emotional presence. - The importance of clarity, accountability, and supportive structure in relationship work. (29:13) Business Best Practices & Lead Generation - Key strategies: - Event marketing (webinars, summits) for lead generation. - Discovery/enrollment calls structured as exploration, clinical insight, recommendation, invitation. - Building detailed client avatars to refine messaging and offers. - Time management tips: “Time To Think” and “Time To Measure” built into the daily schedule. - Encouragement: Stay persistent for the sake of those who need the help, even if it’s just one man. (56:22) Connect with Dr. Nancy Moonstar - Website: amansguidetointimacy.com - Free cheat sheet available on her website. - Instagram: @amansguidetointimacy - Book: “A Man’s Guide to Pleasuring His Partner: The Five Stages of Intimacy, from Conversation to Penetration” available on Amazon (search “all books” to bypass adult filters). - Immersion program and contact options available via her website. (57:21) **Thank you for listening!** For show links, resources, and more from Jarvis T. Gray and Dr. Nancy Moonstar, see the episode description. Is your healthcare organization ready to excel with Lean Six Sigma? Take our quick Readiness Assessment to uncover strengths and improvement opportunities for quality, safety, and efficiency  - Start Now: Lean Six Sigma Readiness Assessment Thank you for tuning in! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast for more insights into achieving healthcare excellence.