The Grit & Grace Podcast with Dr. Lori Doddy
May 28, 2026 · 19 min · 10 segments
In the final episode of this series, we zoom out and explore the larger cultural and emotional context surrounding menopause and midlife. Because many women were not only physically unprepared for…
Lori DoddyHost
Over the last couple of episodes, the last two episodes actually, I've been talking about this idea of women losing familiar body signals.

And at first, I talked about it through the lens of having had a hysterectomy and losing our menstrual cycles a lot earlier when you have a hysterectomy, like in your late 30s, early 40s.

Last week, I talked about it through this experience that so many women have in midlife, where they, they stop feeling familiar to themselves somehow, which is super uncomfortable.

And the more I've sat with this whole idea and this whole conversation, the more I keep coming back to the same question: Why were so many of us unprepared for this? Because when I look back at it now, it is freaking wild how little most of us actually understood anything about perimenopause at the time that we were entering it.

Hell, I think, um, a lot of times it's become kinda like the fad thing to talk about.

There, there is more information everywhere, although a lot of misinformation, and still not enough, enough accurate information, but that's a topic for another day.

M- many, many more episodes could come on that, right? But even if there is more conversation now and it's a little louder now, back then most of us understood menopause in the, the most surface level way imaginable, if we understood it at all.

Over the last couple of episodes, the last two episodes actually, I've been talking about this idea of women losing familiar body signals.

And at first, I talked about it through the lens of having had a hysterectomy and losing our menstrual cycles a lot earlier when you have a hysterectomy, like in your late 30s, early 40s.

Last week, I talked about it through this experience that so many women have in midlife, where they, they stop feeling familiar to themselves somehow, which is super uncomfortable.

And the more I've sat with this whole idea and this whole conversation, the more I keep coming back to the same question: Why were so many of us unprepared for this? Because when I look back at it now, it is freaking wild how little most of us actually understood anything about perimenopause at the time that we were entering it.

Hell, I think, um, a lot of times it's become kinda like the fad thing to talk about.

There, there is more information everywhere, although a lot of misinformation, and still not enough, enough accurate information, but that's a topic for another day.

M- many, many more episodes could come on that, right? But even if there is more conversation now and it's a little louder now, back then most of us understood menopause in the, the most surface level way imaginable, if we understood it at all.
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