16 Ways to Spot a Rat: Red Flags You Shouldn’t Ignore

So today we are talking about the rat filter, which we're also calling in today's podcast, 16 ways to spot a rat.

This is from chapter 22 in your book, Fascinating Women for the Timeless Woman.

Before we jump into the 16 ways to spot a rat, do you want to explain what a rat is and how you came up with that?

I guess because of a couple of people I've known.

And fortunately, it's not a lot, but there happens.

And I'm sure there are for all of you.

You've known people who are kind of just rats.

And what I mean by a rat is somebody that can fool you up front.

Then over time, they kind of give themselves away and you realize, oh no, they were disingenuous or not capable of a really close relationship or sometimes even criminal.

Yeah.

Hopefully not.

Hopefully he's not a criminal.

Well, keeping in mind that a lot of criminals get away with it, they're all alive.

That's true.

Well, and there's women out there listening that probably have dated criminals or have dated someone that has committed a crime or It feels like they should maybe be in jail because

they're so nasty.

But nobody found out.

Nobody found out.

But it's not just that severe either.

It can just be straight up guys that are just bums.

Yeah, guys that their focus is themselves.

And you fit into it as far as you serve them.

And if not...

You're going to be sorry.

So there's obvious things that all of us get about rats.