The Dark Side of Attraction

Do you remember the time you met them? And within an hour, you knew.

Now that you remember it, you can describe the room very well.

What they were wearing.

What were you feeling? The exact moment when something moved in your chest.

Those butterflies in your stomach.

And you thought, oh, this is the one.

This feels so different.

And everyone around you asked you to slow down.

Your friend pointed out that something feels off.

Maybe your sister asked you a question about them, which you did not want to answer.

You told them, Oh, you don't understand.

This is different.

This is not like others.

There is a connection here.

And you chose to ignore every red flag about them.

You just couldn't believe it because the feeling inside you was so strong.

Six months later, you are the only one who's doing the heavy lifting in the relationship.

You are the one who's calling first, texting first.

You are the one who's explaining yourself.

You are the one who's managing their moods.

You are the one who's researching about the relationship and the signs.

You were the one telling your friends that, oh, they are not like this.

Usually they are going through something right now.

And somewhere in those six months, you stopped talking about it altogether because you already knew what they are going to say.

Now hold on to it because the same thing happened with money.

Same thing happened with a job, with a business idea, maybe a city you were sure that you are going to move in.

The feeling comes somewhat very powerful.

That certainty that this is it, this is the one.

This is the one which is meant for me.

You know that feeling, right? And I want to ask you something which might be slightly uncomfortable.

Who taught you to trust that feeling? Because somebody did.

Somebody sold you the idea that when it feels like that, when it hits you that hard, it means something.

That the intensity is the information.

That if it feels like that, it must be right.

And you know, there is an entire industry built on top of that one idea.

A very large, very profitable industry.

And it is not only limited to that industry.

Somewhere, this idea is being sold to you.

that when you feel something like that, it means something.

And a lot of people are making money from it, from the fact that you never question that feeling.

That is what today's episode is about.

On Sunday, I published a full episode on why the same person keeps coming in your life in different bodies.

different name, different face, but the same feeling.

If you have not heard that one, I want you to go and listen to it and you can come back to it so that you understand the mechanism, the spirituality behind it.

Today is the other half of the conversation, not why it happens to you.

No, I'm not talking about that.

I'm talking about who is profiting.

from you when you have those kind of beliefs who's making money out of your own feelings so in today's episode i want to show you the industries who are profiting from it that manifestation twin flame signs synchronicities Hustle, all that energy and frequency talk are selling you one single product in different labels.

Today we are looking at the mechanism.

Then I want to look at what that pull which you feel in your body, what it is actually mean and why it is the last thing on earth you should be taking instructions from.

Because oftentimes I've seen that pull makes you repeat a pattern.

And I will also share the details about two people, a man and a woman, and what this belief has costed them.

It has costed them time, years.

Then I want to go beyond the relationship in today's episode.

Because this is not only limited to relationship.

There is a version of this that has kept a man I knew from earning properly for six years.

And I also want to show you the part that makes the whole thing work.

which is that these systems are built so that they can never be wrong and you never question them.

In spirituality, questioning is welcomed.

Especially in Vedanta.

Vedanta is all about questioning.

You ask as many questions, you ask your doubts and it solves them.

It gives you the answer.

But somewhere in these industries, if you question, that means you are doing something bad you're not supposed to question and people have been blindly following it and even if they try to question it they feel the guilt oh i'm not supposed to do that and i'll also tell you my own version of it and mine kind of came with better poetry this episode is not going to be gentle And before I start, I want to tell you very clearly, I'm not going after you.

Okay, I am going after this industry.

If you believe in any of this, and I think most of my listeners have believed in one thing or the other.

And that is okay.

You were not stupid.

It's just that in all this marketing, in all the social media, you were sold something by people who knew exactly what they were selling.

And most of these people kind of came from different backgrounds.

And sometimes they themselves have bought this thing.

Now they are selling it to you.

So I am going after them, not you.

None of the things which I am going to say in this episode is for you.

So do not take it personally.

And I would love to hear your thoughts about it.

Feel free to comment below or you can send a DM to me.

And before we start, I also want to request you one thing.

If you find any of my episodes interesting, valuable then make sure you follow the show you subscribe to it so that the next one will find you sooner this is the detachment circle my name is sadhar das your guide in this journey to self-realization this one is a shorter episode this is what i called sid's satsang where i say what i actually think and i want to share my thinking with you Not only my knowledge, not only my wisdom.

Let's get on with it.

Do you remember the time you met them? And within an hour, you knew.

Now that you remember it, you can describe the room very well.

What they were wearing.

What were you feeling? The exact moment when something moved in your chest.

Those butterflies in your stomach.

And you thought, oh, this is the one.

This feels so different.

And everyone around you asked you to slow down.

Your friend pointed out that something feels off.

Maybe your sister asked you a question about them, which you did not want to answer.

You told them, Oh, you don't understand.

This is different.

This is not like others.

There is a connection here.

And you chose to ignore every red flag about them.

You just couldn't believe it because the feeling inside you was so strong.

Six months later, you are the only one who's doing the heavy lifting in the relationship.

You are the one who's calling first, texting first.

You are the one who's explaining yourself.

You are the one who's managing their moods.

You are the one who's researching about the relationship and the signs.

You were the one telling your friends that, oh, they are not like this.

Usually they are going through something right now.

And somewhere in those six months, you stopped talking about it altogether because you already knew what they are going to say.

Now hold on to it because the same thing happened with money.

Same thing happened with a job, with a business idea, maybe a city you were sure that you are going to move in.

The feeling comes somewhat very powerful.

That certainty that this is it, this is the one.

This is the one which is meant for me.

You know that feeling, right? And I want to ask you something which might be slightly uncomfortable.

Who taught you to trust that feeling? Because somebody did.

Somebody sold you the idea that when it feels like that, when it hits you that hard, it means something.

That the intensity is the information.

That if it feels like that, it must be right.

And you know, there is an entire industry built on top of that one idea.

A very large, very profitable industry.

And it is not only limited to that industry.

Somewhere, this idea is being sold to you.

that when you feel something like that, it means something.

And a lot of people are making money from it, from the fact that you never question that feeling.

That is what today's episode is about.

On Sunday, I published a full episode on why the same person keeps coming in your life in different bodies.

different name, different face, but the same feeling.

If you have not heard that one, I want you to go and listen to it and you can come back to it so that you understand the mechanism, the spirituality behind it.

Today is the other half of the conversation, not why it happens to you.

No, I'm not talking about that.

I'm talking about who is profiting.

from you when you have those kind of beliefs who's making money out of your own feelings so in today's episode i want to show you the industries who are profiting from it that manifestation twin flame signs synchronicities Hustle, all that energy and frequency talk are selling you one single product in different labels.

Today we are looking at the mechanism.

Then I want to look at what that pull which you feel in your body, what it is actually mean and why it is the last thing on earth you should be taking instructions from.

Because oftentimes I've seen that pull makes you repeat a pattern.

And I will also share the details about two people, a man and a woman, and what this belief has costed them.

It has costed them time, years.

Then I want to go beyond the relationship in today's episode.

Because this is not only limited to relationship.

There is a version of this that has kept a man I knew from earning properly for six years.

And I also want to show you the part that makes the whole thing work.

which is that these systems are built so that they can never be wrong and you never question them.

In spirituality, questioning is welcomed.

Especially in Vedanta.

Vedanta is all about questioning.

You ask as many questions, you ask your doubts and it solves them.

It gives you the answer.

But somewhere in these industries, if you question, that means you are doing something bad you're not supposed to question and people have been blindly following it and even if they try to question it they feel the guilt oh i'm not supposed to do that and i'll also tell you my own version of it and mine kind of came with better poetry this episode is not going to be gentle And before I start, I want to tell you very clearly, I'm not going after you.

Okay, I am going after this industry.

If you believe in any of this, and I think most of my listeners have believed in one thing or the other.

And that is okay.

You were not stupid.

It's just that in all this marketing, in all the social media, you were sold something by people who knew exactly what they were selling.

And most of these people kind of came from different backgrounds.

And sometimes they themselves have bought this thing.

Now they are selling it to you.

So I am going after them, not you.

None of the things which I am going to say in this episode is for you.

So do not take it personally.

And I would love to hear your thoughts about it.

Feel free to comment below or you can send a DM to me.

And before we start, I also want to request you one thing.

If you find any of my episodes interesting, valuable then make sure you follow the show you subscribe to it so that the next one will find you sooner this is the detachment circle my name is sadhar das your guide in this journey to self-realization this one is a shorter episode this is what i called sid's satsang where i say what i actually think and i want to share my thinking with you Not only my knowledge, not only my wisdom.

Let's get on with it.