The Acceptance Project | Personal Growth, Self-Care, & Emotional Health
Jun 16, 2026 · 14 min · 8 segments
Feeling stuck can be frustrating, especially when you're trying to move forward and nothing seems to be changing. In this episode of The Acceptance Project Podcast, Dr. Bryan Gross explores **three…
Bryan GrossHostAnd that's what I think we've lost a little bit as adults.
We've become so focused on the next thing that we forget to fully experience the thing we're doing right now.
We're thinking about tomorrow while today's sunset is happening.
We're worrying about next week's problems while today's blessings are sitting right in front of us.
The first lesson I think we can learn from the summer solstice is that growth often happens so slowly that we don't even notice it.
Think about that for a moment.
The longest day of the year doesn't suddenly appear.
It takes six months to get there.
Not enough for most people to notice from one day to the next.
The change is gradual.
It's quiet.
It's almost invisible.
yet eventually all those tiny changes add up to the longest day of the year life works exactly the same way we often get frustrated because we don't see immediate progress we want confidence by friday we want healing by next month we want our goals accomplished by the end of the year We need the transformation without the process, but that's not how growth works.
Growth usually happens in small moments.
It's one conversation, one decision, one healthy choice, one act of courage, one step forward when everything inside you wants to stay where you are, then another, and then another.
Eventually, you look back and you realize you've traveled farther than you ever imagined.
Now, there's a story about a bamboo farmer in China that perfectly illustrates this lesson.
A particular type of bamboo is planted and cared for every day.
The farmer waters it faithfully.
After the first year, nothing appears above the ground.
The second year, still nothing.
The third year, nothing.
The fourth year, nothing.
I can imagine he was getting frustrated by this point.
And that's what I think we've lost a little bit as adults.
We've become so focused on the next thing that we forget to fully experience the thing we're doing right now.
We're thinking about tomorrow while today's sunset is happening.
We're worrying about next week's problems while today's blessings are sitting right in front of us.
The first lesson I think we can learn from the summer solstice is that growth often happens so slowly that we don't even notice it.
Think about that for a moment.
The longest day of the year doesn't suddenly appear.
It takes six months to get there.
Not enough for most people to notice from one day to the next.
The change is gradual.
It's quiet.
It's almost invisible.
yet eventually all those tiny changes add up to the longest day of the year life works exactly the same way we often get frustrated because we don't see immediate progress we want confidence by friday we want healing by next month we want our goals accomplished by the end of the year We need the transformation without the process, but that's not how growth works.
Growth usually happens in small moments.
It's one conversation, one decision, one healthy choice, one act of courage, one step forward when everything inside you wants to stay where you are, then another, and then another.
Eventually, you look back and you realize you've traveled farther than you ever imagined.
Now, there's a story about a bamboo farmer in China that perfectly illustrates this lesson.
A particular type of bamboo is planted and cared for every day.
The farmer waters it faithfully.
After the first year, nothing appears above the ground.
The second year, still nothing.
The third year, nothing.
The fourth year, nothing.
I can imagine he was getting frustrated by this point.
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