Blake Reed EvansHost
And I was reading in the Salon Today article that you talked about some like self-sabotaging behaviors that kind of came up during this week.

What are some things that you notice that stylists are doing that are self-sabotaging? Because I think that is a really direct and very beautiful way of saying some of the things that we do in the salon as service providers.
So they have a lot less money, a lot more time, and they tend to assume all of their guests are also beauty.
understand your fears are not everybody else's fears your personal challenges are not everybody else's challenges please make sure that you are really seeing each guest as an individual and you've taken the time and really you really understand what why are they coming to you what are their challenges what are their needs you need to be their stylist behind the chair for them and that does include the home care recommendations the styling recommendations So that was just a really big aha, those self-sabotaging thoughts.

I've noticed it even in some of my counterparts who have been doing hair for years.

And it's like, yes, but that's not a problem for some of the people that you're serving.

If it's a problem for someone, they'll let you know or they'll just say, no, thank you.

I stopped offering upgrades because I was trying to be kind by being nice by saying, okay, I understand that you're going to be on a budget.

She actually got mad at me saying, Blake, why did you stop offering me treatments and my highlights every other visit? And I said, well, you shared with me that you had lost your job.

And I was reading in the Salon Today article that you talked about some like self-sabotaging behaviors that kind of came up during this week.

What are some things that you notice that stylists are doing that are self-sabotaging? Because I think that is a really direct and very beautiful way of saying some of the things that we do in the salon as service providers.
So they have a lot less money, a lot more time, and they tend to assume all of their guests are also beauty.
understand your fears are not everybody else's fears your personal challenges are not everybody else's challenges please make sure that you are really seeing each guest as an individual and you've taken the time and really you really understand what why are they coming to you what are their challenges what are their needs you need to be their stylist behind the chair for them and that does include the home care recommendations the styling recommendations So that was just a really big aha, those self-sabotaging thoughts.

I've noticed it even in some of my counterparts who have been doing hair for years.

And it's like, yes, but that's not a problem for some of the people that you're serving.

If it's a problem for someone, they'll let you know or they'll just say, no, thank you.

I stopped offering upgrades because I was trying to be kind by being nice by saying, okay, I understand that you're going to be on a budget.

She actually got mad at me saying, Blake, why did you stop offering me treatments and my highlights every other visit? And I said, well, you shared with me that you had lost your job.
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