Jul 15, 2026 · 1 hr 3 min · 11 segments
Charlotte Maya was terrified she'd be ostracized by her community after her husband Sam died by suicide in 2007. Instead, being open about it drew people closer. In this conversation, Charlotte talks…
Charlotte MayaGuest
Emily WashcovickHost
I was terrified that I would be ostracized from my community because of how Sam had died, and what I found was actually the opposite.

I found that w- because I was just very honest and transparent about the fact that Sam had died by suicide, people were really drawn to having those conversations.

It is stunning to me how many people have a very close connection to having lost someone to suicide, but we don't talk about it.

And suicide's the 10th leading cause of death in this country, but we don't like to talk about it, but talking about it is what makes a difference.

I'm your host, Emily Lamenzo Washkovic, and today's conversation is with author Charlotte Maya.

This book alone is an amazing resource for anyone who's navigating loss, but it really is so special for the topic of suicide and suicide loss.

For everyone listening today, we do have some other episodes that they can dig into, but I'm just so grateful that you wanted to, to share your journey and talk about it, and I'm excited for people to hear more about what this has looked like for you and how it can help people, whether they're struggling or they know someone in their life that they think is struggling.

Well, thank you for hosting me because, um, talking about suicide is the number one thing that helps, and so hosting this conversation is everything.

I feel like we can just jump right in because that's how I felt when I read this book.
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I was terrified that I would be ostracized from my community because of how Sam had died, and what I found was actually the opposite.

I found that w- because I was just very honest and transparent about the fact that Sam had died by suicide, people were really drawn to having those conversations.

It is stunning to me how many people have a very close connection to having lost someone to suicide, but we don't talk about it.

And suicide's the 10th leading cause of death in this country, but we don't like to talk about it, but talking about it is what makes a difference.

I'm your host, Emily Lamenzo Washkovic, and today's conversation is with author Charlotte Maya.

This book alone is an amazing resource for anyone who's navigating loss, but it really is so special for the topic of suicide and suicide loss.

For everyone listening today, we do have some other episodes that they can dig into, but I'm just so grateful that you wanted to, to share your journey and talk about it, and I'm excited for people to hear more about what this has looked like for you and how it can help people, whether they're struggling or they know someone in their life that they think is struggling.

Well, thank you for hosting me because, um, talking about suicide is the number one thing that helps, and so hosting this conversation is everything.

I feel like we can just jump right in because that's how I felt when I read this book.