The Four Intimacies Framework with Roy and Dr. Amy Clark #148

Yeah.

Do you want to share an example of some of the cards or the types of stuff you would talk about or be asked?

Darling, what is something I say that makes you feel loved and adored?

Um, I think it's just when he takes the time to ask me questions and, um,

So we went through verbal, emotional, physical, and spiritual questions on here.

Okay.

So each card will have one of each.

Yep.

This card

has four questions.

Is the intent to do all four or just pick one before or I guess one that's lacking maybe?

Well, I think if you start with the verbal, because we believe and we teach it in our book that verbal actually unlocks emotional, which then unlocks physical.

And then all three create a spiritual experience.

And so you really need to do them in order.

And so we'd like you to start with the verbal intimacy question that will lead into an emotional connection, which then leads into a physical.

Our clients have come into the practice.

We usually have them get the book, and then there's questions at the end of every chapter.

And by the time they...

I think physical intimacy is what chapter five.

And so by the time they actually reach the physical intimacy chapter, they are really building their, communication again they're doing something together they're learning exploring about each other and so the book has lots of questions and so the physical or I'm sorry the intimacy card in that box is good and hopefully it just shows people that like okay I put a little forethought and have some conversation then it's going to increase my it's going to increase the pleasure and

yeah probably

going to be making love more often

yeah so yeah i was just um well i just broke up with someone so this is like but um we i used to say like we need to talk more we need to talk more and that would have been helpful yeah prior to this right to like have these kind of cards and stuff yeah and and i know online you can get that kind of stuff too but it's nice it's like a package deal

yeah yeah yeah Um, we, in that verbal intimacy, we teach clients, uh, and if you're, you know, listeners are going to write down anything, write down this sentence.

We ask questions and listen with the intent to understand and a willingness to be influenced.