Jul 8, 2026 · 28 min · 10 segments
Frank sexual discussion ahead — this one's for grown-ups. A listener calls in curious about pegging. He found it through porn, and he's terrified to say any of it out loud to his wife. Corey and Pam…
So, you know, it is one of the more taboo things.
Yes.
That we talked about on the show.
The
word itself elicits a reaction from a lot of people because either they don't know what it is or it's an aversion to it or a very serious intrigue to it.
Yeah.
So, but I guess I go to how do you get past into what's actually happening underneath, right? Is there something deeper that he's looking for here?
And I think that's where we want to land is because the taboo of this topic and the titling of this is real and it's worth naming.
Yeah.
But again, it fits within this element of what are the meanings surrounding it, which is where we land all the time in everything we talk about on this show.
And what we try to do with our life, too, is we talk about the meanings of things more than the things.
And so this is talking more about role reversal, prostate stimulation, vulnerability issues.
There's a lot of aspects to this that, that apply, but that, but the taboo is also a distraction.
Because even in listening to him, he's brought up two different dilemmas within this.
And the other is, should I bring it to my wife? Should I let her know what I'm really intrigued or curious about?
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
And so this is about understanding that the act in and of itself is almost beside the point once you start to see what's underneath it all.
So, you know, it is one of the more taboo things.
Yes.
That we talked about on the show.
The
word itself elicits a reaction from a lot of people because either they don't know what it is or it's an aversion to it or a very serious intrigue to it.
Yeah.
So, but I guess I go to how do you get past into what's actually happening underneath, right? Is there something deeper that he's looking for here?
And I think that's where we want to land is because the taboo of this topic and the titling of this is real and it's worth naming.
Yeah.
But again, it fits within this element of what are the meanings surrounding it, which is where we land all the time in everything we talk about on this show.
And what we try to do with our life, too, is we talk about the meanings of things more than the things.
And so this is talking more about role reversal, prostate stimulation, vulnerability issues.
There's a lot of aspects to this that, that apply, but that, but the taboo is also a distraction.
Because even in listening to him, he's brought up two different dilemmas within this.
And the other is, should I bring it to my wife? Should I let her know what I'm really intrigued or curious about?
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
And so this is about understanding that the act in and of itself is almost beside the point once you start to see what's underneath it all.
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