HOW TO STOP BEING CLINGY

Absolutely.

You just nailed it right on the head.

I mean, that's the exact thing that I've said to myself and I've written in a journal.

It's like, I don't understand what this is.

Everything every girl wants.

I mean, he is such a great partner and he does support me.

And a great father.

And a great father as well.

The thing is...

The nature of his job...

Now I feel like I'm in a therapy session.

Please do.

This

is my favorite part of life, so please do.

The nature of his job is to be away a lot.

And for me, that's how I feel.

And for a while, I couldn't really say those words because I felt I could hear my mom saying, oh, God, all you do is complain.

You know, everyone would dream of going to America by themselves and starting their dream.

You've always said you love California.

Stop moaning.

And that's why I never said the words of I was abandoned until I went through therapy and now I'm okay with saying I survived abandonment and neglect.

So when he leaves, I feel abandoned.

So I resent him.

And then he calls me and he's checking on me all day.

He's constantly trying to meet my needs a long distance.