Aug 25, 2026 · 17 min · 9 segments
*No two children come to God the same way. If you have more than one child, you already know it in your gut — one talks your ear off while you coax three words from the other; one feels everything…
Rita HernandezHost
One feels everything deeply and is a drama queen, and the other shrugs and moves on.
They came out of the same home, sometimes just a couple of years apart, And they are completely different people.
The very thing that makes your children different from each other are not obstacles to their faith.
So when a one-size-fits-all approach to discipleship doesn't fit one of your children, hear me, that's not the child failing.
That's your bumping into the fact that God made an original and you were handing them a copy.
Now, if you were with me last week, I want to make sure we connect these two episodes because they're two halves of one truth.
Last week in This Is Not You, I told you not to slap labels on your children, not to take a behavior and weld it into their identity.
You're the difficult one, you're my shy one, remember? A label is something we impose from the outside and it's usually false.
This week, we'll talk about the flip side because there is something real and God-given inside your child that you're meant to discover.
One feels everything deeply and is a drama queen, and the other shrugs and moves on.
They came out of the same home, sometimes just a couple of years apart, And they are completely different people.
The very thing that makes your children different from each other are not obstacles to their faith.
So when a one-size-fits-all approach to discipleship doesn't fit one of your children, hear me, that's not the child failing.
That's your bumping into the fact that God made an original and you were handing them a copy.
Now, if you were with me last week, I want to make sure we connect these two episodes because they're two halves of one truth.
Last week in This Is Not You, I told you not to slap labels on your children, not to take a behavior and weld it into their identity.
You're the difficult one, you're my shy one, remember? A label is something we impose from the outside and it's usually false.
This week, we'll talk about the flip side because there is something real and God-given inside your child that you're meant to discover.
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