It’s Xander’s birthday! And this week for our Ask Us Anything episode, we decided to answer some of your personal questions!
This one really pulls back the curtain on us as a couple. Ready for honest reactions, beyond real talk, and more than a little oversharing?
💛 **In this episode, you'll hear:**
- Whether we've ever set foot in a swingers or sex club
- If we’re starting an Only Fans
- Is it weird that our parents know intimate details about our sex lives because of what we do
- Our honest answers about giving each other the Ick
- Who really initiates more between the two of us
- Our favorite time of day for sex, and the reasoning behind it
- How we handle the creeps who show up in our comments
- The single position we'd choose if we had to pick just one forever
At the end of the day, we're two people figuring out long-term love, running a business, and life together… while keeping intimacy our priority. Thanks for being on the ride with us.
**🎂 It's Xander's birthday, and the gift is going to you** Xander is turning 41 and three of our most-loved guides and courses are **$41 each, this weekend only!**
- **The Ultimate Foreplay Guides** (normally $69), over 100 hand and mouth techniques shown step by step
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- **Ultimate Sex Positions** (normally $97, save ), 42 illustrated positions with how to get in, how to move, and what each one is good for
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- **The Art of Initiation** (normally $89), the six ways people want to be invited into sex, so reaching for each other feels exciting again
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Grab one, or add the others for $41 each at checkout.
The Birthday Suit Sale ends Sunday, July 12 at 11:59pm PT, then it's back to full price.
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**🔗 Links & Resources**
- 🛏️ **Get the TABU Pillow** — Comfortable, discreet, and actually changes the angle in ways that make a big difference 🔥. We’re obsessed. → https://vmtherapy.com/pillow
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