Aug 15, 2026 · 28 min · 10 segments
meh, just listen… books: the oxford illustrated history of christianity - mcmanners the liveship traders trilogy - hobb songs: all this to live for - emmit fenn i wouldn’t change a thing…
heard someone say, the only way we can make peace with our past is to say, it happened for us and not to us.
And my first thought was nah, that shit happened to me like it did.
And I don't know why people, I heard something about this on IG, why we're so obsessed with giving pain a happy ending I'm stronger now.
I grew so much.
I'm a better person because of it.
It's almost like we're expected to thank the thing that broke us.
As if pain were a gift.
Stop confusing what came after with what caused it.
No, I choose not to suffer.
Yeah, I quit.
I guess in retrospect, you do have to look at things and say, hey, I did learn from that.
I did this.
But I'm like, no, that shit happened to me.
And I'd prefer it not to have happened.
And that's okay.
heard someone say, the only way we can make peace with our past is to say, it happened for us and not to us.
And my first thought was nah, that shit happened to me like it did.
And I don't know why people, I heard something about this on IG, why we're so obsessed with giving pain a happy ending I'm stronger now.
I grew so much.
I'm a better person because of it.
It's almost like we're expected to thank the thing that broke us.
As if pain were a gift.
Stop confusing what came after with what caused it.
No, I choose not to suffer.
Yeah, I quit.
I guess in retrospect, you do have to look at things and say, hey, I did learn from that.
I did this.
But I'm like, no, that shit happened to me.
And I'd prefer it not to have happened.
And that's okay.
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