Arielle TuckerHost
I think that makes sense, this idea that we're going to have a de facto person.

And when you have families across borders, it's added a whole bunch of complexity.

For example, if you are a resident in a country that has weird inheritance tax laws, rules and then you're named the trustee, that could potentially bring the whole estate into a foreign country.

So it's really important that for our cross-border audience who's listening today, that you're thinking about this very strategically because it's possible that that can-do person maybe does live abroad, but maybe they don't need to be listed on all the really important paperwork.

But because not all countries recognize trust in the same way, they're not always up to date with U.S. trust law versus foreign trust law.

And then you have to go through the German courts or you have to go through foreign courts.

So that's where from a cross-border perspective, we always want to be thinking very proactively, who has these roles? What are the roles? And really have those difficult conversations.

okay, you're only home once a year or twice a year and maybe you're the only child and there's a lot of guilt that you live so far away.

And I don't know if you dealt with that at all with your mom living a few states away, if there was guilt between you live here and I live there.
You know, it's that general sandwich generation feeling, right? You're failing everybody all the time while you're trying to just be there for everybody.

I think that makes sense, this idea that we're going to have a de facto person.

And when you have families across borders, it's added a whole bunch of complexity.

For example, if you are a resident in a country that has weird inheritance tax laws, rules and then you're named the trustee, that could potentially bring the whole estate into a foreign country.

So it's really important that for our cross-border audience who's listening today, that you're thinking about this very strategically because it's possible that that can-do person maybe does live abroad, but maybe they don't need to be listed on all the really important paperwork.

But because not all countries recognize trust in the same way, they're not always up to date with U.S. trust law versus foreign trust law.

And then you have to go through the German courts or you have to go through foreign courts.

So that's where from a cross-border perspective, we always want to be thinking very proactively, who has these roles? What are the roles? And really have those difficult conversations.

okay, you're only home once a year or twice a year and maybe you're the only child and there's a lot of guilt that you live so far away.

And I don't know if you dealt with that at all with your mom living a few states away, if there was guilt between you live here and I live there.
You know, it's that general sandwich generation feeling, right? You're failing everybody all the time while you're trying to just be there for everybody.
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