OAK Tarot of Love and Romance: Five of Swords Why You're Draining Your Partner

Power in a relationship isn't always about who wins the argument or who holds the bank account keys.

Often it's a silent, invisible tug-of-war for the literal energy that keeps our hearts beating.

That's the unsettling premise of the Five of Swords in Joe Bandel's Oak Tarot of Love and Romance, a card that replaces the traditional imagery of a gloating victor with a haunting scene of entrapment and what Bandel calls an astral energy exchange.

If you look at the card, the silvers, purples, and golds aren't just decorative.

They frame a man who is literally caged by five glowing swords while a woman moves freely in the distance, radiating a strange, cautious light.

Power in a relationship isn't always about who wins the argument or who holds the bank account keys.

Often it's a silent, invisible tug-of-war for the literal energy that keeps our hearts beating.

That's the unsettling premise of the Five of Swords in Joe Bandel's Oak Tarot of Love and Romance, a card that replaces the traditional imagery of a gloating victor with a haunting scene of entrapment and what Bandel calls an astral energy exchange.

If you look at the card, the silvers, purples, and golds aren't just decorative.

They frame a man who is literally caged by five glowing swords while a woman moves freely in the distance, radiating a strange, cautious light.