Midlife & Beyond Conversations
Sep 15, 2026 · 29 min · 10 segments
There’s something about becoming a grandmother that is almost impossible to put into words. That first moment. That first cuddle. The first time you hear your grandchild call your special name. My…
Joy CrawfordGuest
Jo BlackwellHost
Oh, that feeling is irresistible, unexplainable, inexplicable, all those words that I can't even come up with.

And people that haven't become grandparents, when they do become grandparents, they get to feel that unimaginable feeling.

When I'm talking to people that are getting ready to be grandparents and I say, "Girl, you just don't know what it's gonna be like", and a lot of people tell me, a lot of ladies, "Joy, my baby is having a baby.

I'm excited, but that's her baby, not my baby." And I say, "Nope, that's gonna be your baby as soon as that baby is born."

And sure enough, folks have called me and said, "Joy, guess what? I'm holding my baby." [laughs]

And all, all children, it, it doesn't matter if they're related to me or not, you know? They're, they're still my babies if they're coming up to me, you know? I mean-

... it's just something that crosses barriers, doesn't it? It doesn't matter what country you live in, what language you speak.

You're in a gymnasium, and in this gymnasium on one side of the court are, are adults.

Adults, males, adult females, but si- since I'm dealing with grandmas, more grandmas than grandpas, but anyway, it doesn't matter.

They could be doctors, they could be lawyers, they could be trash men, they can be non-working.

Oh, that feeling is irresistible, unexplainable, inexplicable, all those words that I can't even come up with.

And people that haven't become grandparents, when they do become grandparents, they get to feel that unimaginable feeling.

When I'm talking to people that are getting ready to be grandparents and I say, "Girl, you just don't know what it's gonna be like", and a lot of people tell me, a lot of ladies, "Joy, my baby is having a baby.

I'm excited, but that's her baby, not my baby." And I say, "Nope, that's gonna be your baby as soon as that baby is born."

And sure enough, folks have called me and said, "Joy, guess what? I'm holding my baby." [laughs]

And all, all children, it, it doesn't matter if they're related to me or not, you know? They're, they're still my babies if they're coming up to me, you know? I mean-

... it's just something that crosses barriers, doesn't it? It doesn't matter what country you live in, what language you speak.

You're in a gymnasium, and in this gymnasium on one side of the court are, are adults.

Adults, males, adult females, but si- since I'm dealing with grandmas, more grandmas than grandpas, but anyway, it doesn't matter.

They could be doctors, they could be lawyers, they could be trash men, they can be non-working.
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