Disney Budget Epiphany
Sam recalls niece tossing aside Christmas gifts.
Jul 15, 2026 · 40 min · 12 segments
How do you raise children who understand the value of money in a world where almost every payment is digital? In this episode of Leadership Tea, Shelby Smith-Wilson and Belinda Jackson welcome back…
Josh BarrettGuest
Sam SalmonGuest
Shelby Smith-WilsonHost
Belinda Jackson FarrierHost
I think that based on what I've seen in my family and my friends, at least one of the things that I see is how we view money when we're growing up regarding our own situation or our parents' situation financially, and then how that translates into education.

So I think one of the biggest things is not trying to overcompensate, which is really hard.

At least I see it a lot in my circle of friends where when we were growing up, And this is different for every generation, but it follows a cycle where if you say you didn't have something or you couldn't have something, then you want your kids to have everything.

And how do you balance that? Whether you can or cannot doesn't really become a factor.

But without taking away from what you want to give them, it's a very difficult balance to achieve.

And no one should feel bad about what they're doing is just how do we incorporate more consciousness to it is what I would say.

I still remember when I was little, I don't know how old I was when my parents opened my first bank account for me, but I remember going to the bank and being so excited.

And it was a dollar or two, which... 30, 40 years ago was, it was a lot more money than it is today where we're talking about not even making or printing the dollar anymore because is it really worth the cost of it? So, All of that to say, just over the last 30 to 40 years of my own personal experience, I've seen like, why don't people start young? A lot of it has to do with looking at, I don't know, the parents always understand finances because how were they taught about them? Was, did their parents understand? So you have a generational issue where people don't understand the value of money that Sam just spoke to, or they just don't understand finance.

how to manage money or how to save money or the priorities that they should be placing on it.

And then on the opposite hand, you can have, you could have been raised in a situation where money was taught, the value of money was taught, savings was taught, and You had different desires, let's say, and didn't want to save money or wanted to be, have what everybody else has.

The latest thing, we'll say keeping up with the Joneses, no offense to the Joneses, but keeping up with the Joneses.

I think that based on what I've seen in my family and my friends, at least one of the things that I see is how we view money when we're growing up regarding our own situation or our parents' situation financially, and then how that translates into education.

So I think one of the biggest things is not trying to overcompensate, which is really hard.

At least I see it a lot in my circle of friends where when we were growing up, And this is different for every generation, but it follows a cycle where if you say you didn't have something or you couldn't have something, then you want your kids to have everything.

And how do you balance that? Whether you can or cannot doesn't really become a factor.

But without taking away from what you want to give them, it's a very difficult balance to achieve.

And no one should feel bad about what they're doing is just how do we incorporate more consciousness to it is what I would say.

I still remember when I was little, I don't know how old I was when my parents opened my first bank account for me, but I remember going to the bank and being so excited.

And it was a dollar or two, which... 30, 40 years ago was, it was a lot more money than it is today where we're talking about not even making or printing the dollar anymore because is it really worth the cost of it? So, All of that to say, just over the last 30 to 40 years of my own personal experience, I've seen like, why don't people start young? A lot of it has to do with looking at, I don't know, the parents always understand finances because how were they taught about them? Was, did their parents understand? So you have a generational issue where people don't understand the value of money that Sam just spoke to, or they just don't understand finance.

how to manage money or how to save money or the priorities that they should be placing on it.

And then on the opposite hand, you can have, you could have been raised in a situation where money was taught, the value of money was taught, savings was taught, and You had different desires, let's say, and didn't want to save money or wanted to be, have what everybody else has.

The latest thing, we'll say keeping up with the Joneses, no offense to the Joneses, but keeping up with the Joneses.
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Disney Budget Epiphany
Sam recalls niece tossing aside Christmas gifts.
Never Too Late
Josh reassures late bloomers about financial literacy.
Parental Overcompensation Trap
Sam warns against parental overcompensation money traps.
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