Happy Money: Why Earning More Never Fixed the Stress — with Ken Honda | Ep 84

*For the leader who has made the money, still feels the squeeze every time it moves, and suspects the number was never the variable.* Ken Honda learned about money from his father from around the age of five, started investing at twenty, and semi-retired at twenty-nine to raise his daughter. By most measures that is where a money problem ends. He has spent the decades since studying happiness and money. And arguing that the amount was never the problem in the first place. The distinction he draws is between money that makes you smile when it arrives and when it leaves, and money that arrives with a squeeze. Most people, in his reading, live inside the second flow, and earning more takes them deeper into it, because the cost of everything rises alongside the income. He calls the condition a trance, and traces it to a money game everyone is enrolled in without consent, with nobody available to teach the rules. In this conversation, Celinne and Ken Honda define happy and unhappy money, and unpack ikigai — the Japanese term for a life worth living — as the route out. You'll hear the arigato practice Ken learned from his mentor, what it costs a family when a founder draws energy from his children's future, and Ken's own answer to what he may already have outgrown. #### **ON THIS EPISODE:** **00:00** Feel what happens in your body the moment money leaves your account **03:31** Define happy money and unhappy money in Ken's own terms **~07:10** Hear what Ken's schoolteacher said when a boy asked him about money **17:46** Meet the family living well on fifty dollars a year in rent **20:20** Consider working less and spending less as the same arithmetic **28:06** Learn what ikigai literally means and where a life purpose is buried **43:20** Practice the arigato money habit Ken learned from his mentor **52:26** Confront the energy some entrepreneurs draw from their children's future **1:06:20** Discover the second career Ken is planning for 2027 #### **KEY IDEAS:** ✨ **Money carries the state it moves through:** Happy money makes you smile arriving and leaving. Unhappy money squeezes at both ends. Ken's position is that most people are living in the second flow, and that the flow determines the stress more than the balance does. ✨ **A bigger income raises the cost of everything:** When earnings double, so does the cost of living the life that earning it requires, which is how a month can still end in a pool of bills. Ken's answer is to check the inventory on a three-year horizon — the job, the school fees, the house, the company itself — and to treat downsizing as a legitimate direction. ✨ **Your ikigai is buried in your past:** Ikigai literally means a life worth living. Ken locates it in childhood and upbringing, and in the wound a person has already tended, because the thing that hurt you most is the thing millions of others are still carrying. ✨ **Read the energy balance sheet:** Ken asks whether a person's energy is expanding or shrinking, and points out that a founder running on adrenaline often can't feel the drain while the family absorbs it. He calls it the family energy quota. #### **RESOURCES:** Ken Honda is a global bestselling author who has sold over 9 million copies of books worldwide since 2001. With more than 120 books published, Ken's work has been translated to over 32 languages. Including the popular *"Happy Money*" and *"True Wealth"*. Known as the "Happy Money Guy", "Money Healer", and "Zen Millionaire" in Japan, Ken semi-retired at the early age of 29 to raise his daughter. During that time, he received a vision of becoming an author to share his unique views about success and happiness. His teachings now bridge the themes of money and purpose, inviting people to heal their relationship with money. As well as to manifest meaningful abundance, and use their gifts in alignment with their life purpose. Ken is also a featured star in the "Pillars of Power" movie alongside Lisa Nichols, Michael Beckwith, Dr. John Demartini, Marie Diamond, and other industry legends. Website **|** Instagram **|** YouTube **|** Facebook Celinne Da Costa is a podcast host, bestselling author, and executive coach for leaders navigating 'I've made it—now what?' She guides them to redesign their next act: more meaningful, more aligned, more fun... and led by their soul's truth. **Website | LinkedIn | Substack | Instagram | Facebook** 💡 Ken's position is that money carries whatever state it moves through, and that the state changes when the work is genuinely yours. Business by Soul is Celinne's self-paced course for entrepreneurs who want to turn their soul's vocation into a business they can put out into the world. So that the values and the mission ride inside every action and less effort moves more. Work through it in your own time here. 💡 **Mentioned in this episode:** Business by Soul Masterclass **—** Celinne's free masterclass on creating a soul-aligned, prosperous business you love: *Happy Money by Ken Honda* — the international bestseller named in the opening. INWYT 083 — Dr John Demartini - podcast episode with Dr John Demartini