Jun 16, 2026 · 1 hr 1 min · 10 segments
**What if your breaking point isn't the end of your story, but the beginning?** In this episode I interview fellow intuitive, Martyn Mills. Martyn shares his life’s journey including a previous…
Martin MillsGuest
Emily MarieHost
When you do inner work, you realize that beliefs, it's literally belief, it's not a true knowing, it's just repeated messaging.
Well, maybe some people don't out there, but me and Martin absolutely love our parents.
But yeah, it's I when I had that aha moment was like, oh, my God, that belief was drilled into me as a child.
But for me afterwards, it gave me a lot of clarity and a lot of it's not, you know, it's not just me like it gave meaning behind it.
um and i felt a bit more secure and grounded that okay this isn't my true self it was just something that was formed in me as a child so thank you so much for sharing that and it's so interesting for the audience as well to see a little bit a little snippet of how your beliefs were formed so if we like go back well go back go forward in the future a little bit um How do you feel that these kind of belief systems formed you as an adult and what kind of like experiences or dynamics did you find yourself in as an adult or an early adult?
Yeah, so that sort of idea that in order to receive love, I had to do things for other people, that essentially what it was doing is I ended up putting everything through this lens of how can I do something to make somebody else happy? And I would put myself completely out of the picture.
And in fact, when it did factor in, it was, oh, you'll be, you'll be selfish if you put yourself first.
So everything had to be through this lens of how can I help somebody else? And yeah, It was really rough.
But it meant that I ended up making all decisions in my life based on what I thought other people would want from me.
And ultimately, never putting myself first is how it all forces it to unravel the way that it does.
When you do inner work, you realize that beliefs, it's literally belief, it's not a true knowing, it's just repeated messaging.
Well, maybe some people don't out there, but me and Martin absolutely love our parents.
But yeah, it's I when I had that aha moment was like, oh, my God, that belief was drilled into me as a child.
But for me afterwards, it gave me a lot of clarity and a lot of it's not, you know, it's not just me like it gave meaning behind it.
um and i felt a bit more secure and grounded that okay this isn't my true self it was just something that was formed in me as a child so thank you so much for sharing that and it's so interesting for the audience as well to see a little bit a little snippet of how your beliefs were formed so if we like go back well go back go forward in the future a little bit um How do you feel that these kind of belief systems formed you as an adult and what kind of like experiences or dynamics did you find yourself in as an adult or an early adult?
Yeah, so that sort of idea that in order to receive love, I had to do things for other people, that essentially what it was doing is I ended up putting everything through this lens of how can I do something to make somebody else happy? And I would put myself completely out of the picture.
And in fact, when it did factor in, it was, oh, you'll be, you'll be selfish if you put yourself first.
So everything had to be through this lens of how can I help somebody else? And yeah, It was really rough.
But it meant that I ended up making all decisions in my life based on what I thought other people would want from me.
And ultimately, never putting myself first is how it all forces it to unravel the way that it does.
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