Oct 8, 2026 · 7 min · 8 segments
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And rape is this.
You are not giving consent to have that sexual conduct.
If you are passed out, you can't give consent.
If you're unconscious, you cannot give consent.
You can be in the act and decide, I want to stop.
I'm done.
I'm done.
And say,
stop.
You know, I went to law school.
One of my very, very good friends, one of my sorority sisters, who...
My first year of law school, her first year of the master's program, who was seeing this guy and literally they were in the midst of.
And she said, stop, I don't want to do this.
I don't want to go any further.
And he didn't stop.
And that has affected the rest of her life.
That's right.
That's right.
And I don't care.
Can we just be straight up? Yes.
I've heard guys with all this stuff, this blue ball stuff.
You know what I'm talking about?
You ever heard about blue balls?
Yes.
I'm just saying.
And rape is this.
You are not giving consent to have that sexual conduct.
If you are passed out, you can't give consent.
If you're unconscious, you cannot give consent.
You can be in the act and decide, I want to stop.
I'm done.
I'm done.
And say,
stop.
You know, I went to law school.
One of my very, very good friends, one of my sorority sisters, who...
My first year of law school, her first year of the master's program, who was seeing this guy and literally they were in the midst of.
And she said, stop, I don't want to do this.
I don't want to go any further.
And he didn't stop.
And that has affected the rest of her life.
That's right.
That's right.
And I don't care.
Can we just be straight up? Yes.
I've heard guys with all this stuff, this blue ball stuff.
You know what I'm talking about?
You ever heard about blue balls?
Yes.
I'm just saying.
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