Her First 3 Years - A podcast for women entrepreneurs
Aug 31, 2026 · 36 min · 11 segments
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Katelyn BourgoinGuest
Chardét RyelHost
I have built several since then, some that were successes and got sold, others that led to personal bankruptcy.

I'd say that most recently, I think a real turning point for me was this idea of really evaluating what I want.

Because I think that as entrepreneurs, we are subject to so much like entrepreneur hero ship, people presenting entrepreneurs as these incredible, amazing people.

And they're living these big lives and they're building these big companies.

And I tried to do that, right? Like I tried to build, I did build a VC-backed tech company.

but what i was doing for much of my entrepreneurial career and i'd say only up until very like in the last three or four years is when i really got out of this is i was modeling what i thought i was supposed to want because i was looking at what other people wanted and there's this great book called wanting by um Luke Burgess, and he talks about this concept of mimetic desire.

And I think anybody who's at this stage in their life where they are feeling attention, not exactly sure where they want to go next, but feeling drawn to doing something different, I think anyone should read this book.

And what he gets into is this idea that as humans, we often decide what we want based on what we see other people want.

And it also leads to a lot of dissatisfaction because there's often this disconnect between what we thought we were going to want, what we hoped that was going to bring, and what actually comes at the other end.

You know, I've built my media company up into me being a solopreneur doing a million dollars a year.

And so I'd say that the big realization for me, that was one of the catalysts, but it came on the back of just recognizing I've got what I'm supposed to want.

I have built several since then, some that were successes and got sold, others that led to personal bankruptcy.

I'd say that most recently, I think a real turning point for me was this idea of really evaluating what I want.

Because I think that as entrepreneurs, we are subject to so much like entrepreneur hero ship, people presenting entrepreneurs as these incredible, amazing people.

And they're living these big lives and they're building these big companies.

And I tried to do that, right? Like I tried to build, I did build a VC-backed tech company.

but what i was doing for much of my entrepreneurial career and i'd say only up until very like in the last three or four years is when i really got out of this is i was modeling what i thought i was supposed to want because i was looking at what other people wanted and there's this great book called wanting by um Luke Burgess, and he talks about this concept of mimetic desire.

And I think anybody who's at this stage in their life where they are feeling attention, not exactly sure where they want to go next, but feeling drawn to doing something different, I think anyone should read this book.

And what he gets into is this idea that as humans, we often decide what we want based on what we see other people want.

And it also leads to a lot of dissatisfaction because there's often this disconnect between what we thought we were going to want, what we hoped that was going to bring, and what actually comes at the other end.

You know, I've built my media company up into me being a solopreneur doing a million dollars a year.

And so I'd say that the big realization for me, that was one of the catalysts, but it came on the back of just recognizing I've got what I'm supposed to want.
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