Rebalancing Our Relationships: win, win for all

I want to talk particularly about this new moon in Libra on the 10th of October because Libra is all about relationships, harmony, balance, fairness, and peacefulness.

And so those of you who have strong Libran energies may be a little disturbed about what's going on at the present time because that's what we expect from Libra.

Why is this happening? It's because Venus, which actually rules Libra, is in Scorpio, and Scorpio isn't about peace and harmony.

It's about digging deep, going deep, looking at what's going on underneath a relationship.

Do we really have balance? Do we really have harmony? Are we really living in a fair relationship? And Venus is going retrograde, so when anything goes retrograde, it's really about introspection, looking at things even more deeply than usual, and that will continue till about the 24th of October, and then Venus will go back into Libra, which will be calm everything down a little bit.

And then it will move forward in middle of November, come back into Scorpio, and will c- continue through Scorpio, I think, until January.

But there's a lot of movement happening there.

And what the key to this is despite Libran's desire for, "Let's just be calm.

Let's just be peaceful.

Let's just get on with each other," Venus isn't allowing that.

And you may have noticed that at the beginning of October because Mercury, communication, is also in Scorpio.

It's also going to go retrograde, so it's also going to bring to the surface things that have been said, things that you may have just like, oh, it didn't matter.

You know, that they were having a bad time.

That's what Librans tend to do, to overthink things or make peace and compromises.

But things are a little bit deeper now, and you're saying, "Well, actually, that did matter.

That did hurt.

Why did I let that happen?" And the key to this is not just affecting obviously our more intimate relationships.

It might be affecting family relationships, sibling relationships.

It may be connecting to work relationships.

It may even be in accordance to alliances, committees, communities that we've been involved with.

And this is really focusing our attention to our pleaser nature that sits around the solar plexus, the one that wants to just get on and may even be self-critical.

And so something may happen to you, and you may take it as your problem, not someone else's.

Well, Mercury and Venus are gonna say, "No, no, no, no, we're not playing that game." Even though the sun is in Libra at the moment, by the 22nd, 23rd of October, it will be moving into Scorpio, so you got more Scorpio energy.

And with Pluto, which rules Scorpio, in Aquarius and squaring all of this activity, it's going to dig even deeper.

So you may be bringing to the surface very old hurts, if I may say, things that may be involving people who have passed over, and you're going, "Wow, that hurt," or, "That wasn't of kind." And really this is helping us all to look at the broad spectrum of our relationships, including the relationship we have with ourself, I'll come back to that.