Jul 28, 2026 ¡ 11 min ¡ 14 segments
What if the first 30 days of a relationship aren't for falling in love... They're for paying attention? In Episode 2 of the **Behavioral Intelligence⢠Series**, Paula Lowe, RN, BSN, teaches you howâŚ
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Today, we're taking that one step further because once you stop listening to what people say, the next question becomes, what am I supposed to watch? Most people spend like the first month of dating trying to impress someone, looking their best, saying the right things, trying not to text too much, trying not to text too little, trying to figure out how long they're supposed to wait before replying.
When you're busy trying to be chosen, you stop paying attention to whether the other person is actually qualified to choose you and somebody who you would actually choose.
therefore discovering whether they're trustworthy because healthy dating isn't an audition.
Today, we're taking that one step further because once you stop listening to what people say, the next question becomes, what am I supposed to watch? Most people spend like the first month of dating trying to impress someone, looking their best, saying the right things, trying not to text too much, trying not to text too little, trying to figure out how long they're supposed to wait before replying.
When you're busy trying to be chosen, you stop paying attention to whether the other person is actually qualified to choose you and somebody who you would actually choose.
therefore discovering whether they're trustworthy because healthy dating isn't an audition.
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