Jul 24, 2026 · 1 hr 24 min · 10 segments
*What makes a successful Bein Hazmanim?* *When should parents intervene if a son isn't thriving in yeshiva?* *What's the biggest parenting mistake during Bein Hazmanim?* *Can enthusiasm for…
Ari WassermanHost
Yaakov NeuburgerGuest
Dovid KaplanGuestAaron SpivakGuest
As we're often told by the experts, the way to parent, the most important way to parent is to be a great example to those children, not demand.
In fact, if we look at the passage, The Rebbe HaKadosh from Cherniville says this word, that the Torah should be engraved in your heart.
You have to personify Torah, and if that's the case, Then, the next words, you'll be able to teach your children as well.
Why? Things that come out of our hearts that we genuinely feel, how we genuinely act, that will enter the hearts of our children as well.
And that's why it says, that it has to be in our hearts, And accordingly then, In fact, the Kotzka Rebbe was asked by a chassid.
How should I handle this situation? And the Kotzka Rebbe answered, the first thing that you need to do is learn yourself.
If you're learning with hasmata, with motivation and happiness, That will impact them.
As we're often told by the experts, the way to parent, the most important way to parent is to be a great example to those children, not demand.
In fact, if we look at the passage, The Rebbe HaKadosh from Cherniville says this word, that the Torah should be engraved in your heart.
You have to personify Torah, and if that's the case, Then, the next words, you'll be able to teach your children as well.
Why? Things that come out of our hearts that we genuinely feel, how we genuinely act, that will enter the hearts of our children as well.
And that's why it says, that it has to be in our hearts, And accordingly then, In fact, the Kotzka Rebbe was asked by a chassid.
How should I handle this situation? And the Kotzka Rebbe answered, the first thing that you need to do is learn yourself.
If you're learning with hasmata, with motivation and happiness, That will impact them.
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