FLASHBACK FRIDAY: For The Girls Before They Get Engaged
Sep 18, 2026 · 1 hr 1 min · 12 segments
Sep 18, 2026 · 1 hr 1 min · 12 segments
Victoria AlarioHostHello,
And today, we are talking about all the things the girls need to know before getting engaged.
Really putting more of an emphasis on the conversations that you should have before getting engaged.
What, you know, what kind of topics you girls want to hear what recommendations you have for me for the show and the upcoming episodes that you need.
And quite a few of them were all in relation to this being in the, you know, relationship stage before getting engaged.
What should I know? What should I ask? What should we be doing? And yeah, we'll get into all of that today.
And then we do have a Dear Victoria segment at the end, a girl asking for advice.
I didn't want to read the whole thing because I didn't want to like spoil it for myself and give myself too much time to prepare on what to say.
So I don't know fully what the situation is, but I think it has to do with like.
a situation ship a hookup you know a guy she's seeing sort of thing so we will get into that at the end so stick around because you know you never know what resonates um but let's get right into those must-have conversations before getting engaged um and here's the thing this even I could even say this as far as like conversations on like the first date the second date because you I personally would never get into a relationship with someone without knowing these kind of things first.
However, when I was dating, single, dating, going out, meeting guys, I was so intentional.
And like, I'm ready to have some fun and meet a guy like, no, I was single for always.
And I was not going to bother getting into a relationship with someone that I did not see as long term.
And by long term, I didn't mean a couple months, a couple years, I meant marriage, a lifetime, having children, raising a family together, immersing our you know pre-existing families together like you know becoming a union um taking two separate lives and merging them together as one.
So when, when that's what you're looking for, a relationship, a life with someone, these are the kinds of conversations you're going to have from day one.
So it's not to say that like, if you didn't do that, you messed up or it's too late, but it is to say that if you did not do that, and now you're in a relationship with someone, maybe it's a couple months, Maybe it's a couple of years, which would be crazy.
Hello,
And today, we are talking about all the things the girls need to know before getting engaged.
Really putting more of an emphasis on the conversations that you should have before getting engaged.
What, you know, what kind of topics you girls want to hear what recommendations you have for me for the show and the upcoming episodes that you need.
And quite a few of them were all in relation to this being in the, you know, relationship stage before getting engaged.
What should I know? What should I ask? What should we be doing? And yeah, we'll get into all of that today.
And then we do have a Dear Victoria segment at the end, a girl asking for advice.
I didn't want to read the whole thing because I didn't want to like spoil it for myself and give myself too much time to prepare on what to say.
So I don't know fully what the situation is, but I think it has to do with like.
a situation ship a hookup you know a guy she's seeing sort of thing so we will get into that at the end so stick around because you know you never know what resonates um but let's get right into those must-have conversations before getting engaged um and here's the thing this even I could even say this as far as like conversations on like the first date the second date because you I personally would never get into a relationship with someone without knowing these kind of things first.
However, when I was dating, single, dating, going out, meeting guys, I was so intentional.
And like, I'm ready to have some fun and meet a guy like, no, I was single for always.
And I was not going to bother getting into a relationship with someone that I did not see as long term.
And by long term, I didn't mean a couple months, a couple years, I meant marriage, a lifetime, having children, raising a family together, immersing our you know pre-existing families together like you know becoming a union um taking two separate lives and merging them together as one.
So when, when that's what you're looking for, a relationship, a life with someone, these are the kinds of conversations you're going to have from day one.
So it's not to say that like, if you didn't do that, you messed up or it's too late, but it is to say that if you did not do that, and now you're in a relationship with someone, maybe it's a couple months, Maybe it's a couple of years, which would be crazy.
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