Sep 9, 2026 · 1 hr 3 min · 14 segments
What do you do when your child is afraid of something that hasn't even happened yet? A new school. Moving to a new place. Trying out for a team. Going to college. Meeting new people. Changes in the…
Um, today's episode we are going to be talking about how to help your child overcome the fear of the unknown.
Okay.
This is a real thing in our house.
We have kind of caught onto some patterns that have happened with our kids where, like, um, they are just, they're very nervous about something they don't know about, and it's like day two, they're totally fine.
And it's, it's something about not knowing what you're walking into, not knowing what it's gonna be like-
Yeah
... um, that's so scary.
And it's August, so it's been a start of a new year for a lot of different things for our kids.
Like, Abigail just started cosmetology school, and Violet is dual enrolled at, uh, DSC, so she will be starting her first college classes.
Yeah.
Not only her first college classes, but also her first classes outside of our home.
So yeah, she's going to a class for the first time.
Mm-hmm.
She's been, uh, homeschooled her whole life, and so this is new for her, so there's some fear of the unknown that has-
Well-
... happened in our home
By herself.
By herself, yeah.
Which was a, a fear of the unknown.
So we've been talking about this a lot, just me and Thomas have been talking about, like, how to help our kids with, you know, facing things that they don't know what to expect.
And, um, and then we've, we've just talked about how interesting it is that literally the second day of whatever it is, they're totally fine.
Yeah.
They're not afraid anymore, and what's the difference? Known versus unknown.
And I'm kind of in the midst of fear of the unknown right now, because as you're watching this, the wedding has come and gone for our oldest daughter, Catherine, but we are nine days away right now-
Um, today's episode we are going to be talking about how to help your child overcome the fear of the unknown.
Okay.
This is a real thing in our house.
We have kind of caught onto some patterns that have happened with our kids where, like, um, they are just, they're very nervous about something they don't know about, and it's like day two, they're totally fine.
And it's, it's something about not knowing what you're walking into, not knowing what it's gonna be like-
Yeah
... um, that's so scary.
And it's August, so it's been a start of a new year for a lot of different things for our kids.
Like, Abigail just started cosmetology school, and Violet is dual enrolled at, uh, DSC, so she will be starting her first college classes.
Yeah.
Not only her first college classes, but also her first classes outside of our home.
So yeah, she's going to a class for the first time.
Mm-hmm.
She's been, uh, homeschooled her whole life, and so this is new for her, so there's some fear of the unknown that has-
Well-
... happened in our home
By herself.
By herself, yeah.
Which was a, a fear of the unknown.
So we've been talking about this a lot, just me and Thomas have been talking about, like, how to help our kids with, you know, facing things that they don't know what to expect.
And, um, and then we've, we've just talked about how interesting it is that literally the second day of whatever it is, they're totally fine.
Yeah.
They're not afraid anymore, and what's the difference? Known versus unknown.
And I'm kind of in the midst of fear of the unknown right now, because as you're watching this, the wedding has come and gone for our oldest daughter, Catherine, but we are nine days away right now-
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