Why the Love and Desire Died in Your Relationship (And How to Get Them Back) | Episode 137

Like, how do we understand these concepts in a way that can actually make our life better? And polarity as a concept in a relationship and masculine energy and feminine energy in a relationship, these are just words.

They're just words that are trying to describe something.

What I want to do in this episode is to try to make sense of what it is that these words are trying to describe.

For example, when we talk about sexual intensity, what does that have to do with polarity? Why do those things get-- why does polarity get used as a word to describe sexual intensity? What is masculine energy? What does it have to do with being a man? What does masculine energy have to do with being a woman if men and women both have masculine energy? And the same thing with feminine energy.

What does feminine energy have to do with being a woman? What role does it play in the internal world and the inner experience of a man? And how do these things play together? Like, what does this have to do with femininity? Because when we say masculine energy, we don't mean man.

But when we say masculine, a lot of times we do mean man, or we use it to describe a woman who is acting more m-masculine or maybe trying to describe it as more manly, which isn't really the right description.

So I want to make some sense out of this for you today, and I'm going to warn you ahead of time that this episode is going to be very information heavy.

This is going to be a heady episode.

This is something that I could probably put into a course and sell as a lesson or to teach you these things.

I want to give this to you because it's such a, it's such a massively important thing to know and understand.

It'll save you years of having to learn it the hard way because I didn't learn any of this stuff from listening to a podcast or reading about it.

I didn't have what I'm about to give you.

We learned this by living it and then putting words to the experience we were having and then eventually realizing that the experience we were having was lining up with some very deep and long understood truths that other people have figured out a long time ago.

And then all of a sudden it started to click what was actually going on.

So I want to help you in the way that maybe you don't have to fight through years of poking around in the dark, looking for some of these truths.

But this is going to be a heady episode.

It's going to be information heavy.

And I-- it's important to know that knowing this information does absolutely nothing for you.

The reason I know this is because I experienced it, and I learned it from experience.

I'm going to give you the information that you need, but you have to then go take that and make it into experience for yourself.

You have to apply this to your life in a way that actually changes how you're living your life for you.

So one of the things that you have to know is that we don't do polarity.