Sep 13, 2026 · 45 min · 12 segments
This week, Jenn and Alexa are talking about the **“**third place**”**—the places outside of home and work where we used to just… hang out. They get into why those spaces matter, where they’ve gone…
It's so interesting, too, because you really...
Like when you look back on that age of your life, you know, being in my mid to late 30s, like thinking about me at 21 and thinking about some of the decisions I made and how you so honestly feel everything and like the way that you approach things.
And I'm like, I wish I could tell her like, it's not that deep.
you know, like everything is not, I don't know.
It's so, and it's so interesting seeing, and I've talked about this before, some of the girls, free people, they're in their like mid twenties and just seeing them navigate life is, you know, like I want to sometimes be like, it's all right.
Like you're good.
It's your, everything's fine.
Like it's all going to work out, you know, it's all gonna, and it's so interesting to see it.
And then, but then again, like, would you change anything? No.
Like you had to go through that to get to the point now where you're like you kind of yeah give zero fucks honestly
No, literally zero, none.
And I hear 40 is even like more liberating than like in
your 30s.
It's so liberating.
I was actually talking to someone that I'm like, I can't wait.
Well, I can't wait, but I can't wait to be 50 because I feel like there I'm not going to give a fuck.
Like if I give zero now, it's going to be like negative ones.
So I'm
kind
of looking forward to that too.
But no, 40s is nice because you just don't care.
Like you just are.
Like it's
so...
You also should tell our listeners your little hack what you do when someone asks your age.
It's so interesting, too, because you really...
Like when you look back on that age of your life, you know, being in my mid to late 30s, like thinking about me at 21 and thinking about some of the decisions I made and how you so honestly feel everything and like the way that you approach things.
And I'm like, I wish I could tell her like, it's not that deep.
you know, like everything is not, I don't know.
It's so, and it's so interesting seeing, and I've talked about this before, some of the girls, free people, they're in their like mid twenties and just seeing them navigate life is, you know, like I want to sometimes be like, it's all right.
Like you're good.
It's your, everything's fine.
Like it's all going to work out, you know, it's all gonna, and it's so interesting to see it.
And then, but then again, like, would you change anything? No.
Like you had to go through that to get to the point now where you're like you kind of yeah give zero fucks honestly
No, literally zero, none.
And I hear 40 is even like more liberating than like in
your 30s.
It's so liberating.
I was actually talking to someone that I'm like, I can't wait.
Well, I can't wait, but I can't wait to be 50 because I feel like there I'm not going to give a fuck.
Like if I give zero now, it's going to be like negative ones.
So I'm
kind
of looking forward to that too.
But no, 40s is nice because you just don't care.
Like you just are.
Like it's
so...
You also should tell our listeners your little hack what you do when someone asks your age.
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