Inside a Real Amicable Divorce - Her Story | Divorce Actually

yeah

to get to where you got so let's first talk a little bit about where you are in all of this You are now almost two years out of filing for divorce.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I would say actually, I remember September of 2024 being when we submitted everything.

Okay.

Yeah.

So before that, you had a period of time where you were...

Yeah, I would

say for the nine months prior to that, it was very much, I would say, the transition period of when, yeah, we decided that that was going to be the path that we were going to take.

And to literally the day that we filed everything and then it's out of your hands, I think, and for us, that was about six months before the final ruling came through.

But basically, you know, that's hands off, just waiting time.

So that first... nine months, which I now think quite ironic, nine months to birth this new chapter was where it was probably the hardest, I would have to say.

Yeah.

And I want to sort of pick up on what you say about nine months, because I think a lot of people also think that I've decided I'm going to have an amicable divorce.

And that means we can sign everything tomorrow and we'll be done and on my way with it by the end of the month.

Is that what people think? How are people thinking

that? Come on, guys.

Well, exactly.

I mean, they want to know how to convince the other person, for example, to have that.

And we will get into that for sure.

But I think maybe my question, the first question I have for you is this.

When did you know that you were going to have a mutual agreement divorce?

Yeah, I guess...

If I'm being really honest, the point at which this decision came to fruition, it was, I think, something that had been under the surface for a while.