Dimming The Gaslight: Our Healing Journey From Narcissistic Abuse
Sep 13, 2026 · 1 hr 36 min · 19 segments
After years of therapy before she even had a word for what happened to her, Jenny Rudd built an AI that could see it plainly — and it started with her own decade-plus marriage. This week, Mac and…
Jenny RuddGuestMacHostPhilHostAll right, everybody.
Welcome back into a brand new episode of Dimming the Gaslight.
My name is Mac.
And I'm Phil.
And
welcome to the newest episode.
So this is super cool.
We talk about this a lot, how privileged we are as podcast hosts to be able to connect with people all over the world.
And a good friend of ours, Doug Buggle, who has been on the podcast, I think like two or three times now at this point, Doug was able to link up with our guest today.
Her name is Jenny Rudd.
Very good morning to you, top of the morning.
I don't know, but I know it's eight o'clock.
I
Top of the morning to you.
But anyway, let's put another shrimp on the barbie.
But anyway.
But I'm telling you, the cool thing about this, the cool thing about this is she's joining us from New Zealand and she has her very own platform.
called dispute buddy.
Now she has her own story that led her, you know, we're going to get into her story that led her to create dispute buddy, but essentially what dispute buddy does is it monitors your communications with your exes, you know, or whatever your toxic co-parenting situation may be.
And it gives you feedback and data as it relates to your toxic ex.
So she's going to give us more information about it, but welcome to the show, Jenny.
All right, everybody.
Welcome back into a brand new episode of Dimming the Gaslight.
My name is Mac.
And I'm Phil.
And
welcome to the newest episode.
So this is super cool.
We talk about this a lot, how privileged we are as podcast hosts to be able to connect with people all over the world.
And a good friend of ours, Doug Buggle, who has been on the podcast, I think like two or three times now at this point, Doug was able to link up with our guest today.
Her name is Jenny Rudd.
Very good morning to you, top of the morning.
I don't know, but I know it's eight o'clock.
I
Top of the morning to you.
But anyway, let's put another shrimp on the barbie.
But anyway.
But I'm telling you, the cool thing about this, the cool thing about this is she's joining us from New Zealand and she has her very own platform.
called dispute buddy.
Now she has her own story that led her, you know, we're going to get into her story that led her to create dispute buddy, but essentially what dispute buddy does is it monitors your communications with your exes, you know, or whatever your toxic co-parenting situation may be.
And it gives you feedback and data as it relates to your toxic ex.
So she's going to give us more information about it, but welcome to the show, Jenny.
The rest of this transcript — segmented and speaker-labeled, so you land on the exact moment something was said
Search every transcript — by keyword, by phrase, or by meaning, across every show Radar indexes
Trends — what is surging across podcasts, measured against its own baseline
Alerts — when a name you follow appears in a newly indexed episode
No account is needed to search Radar.