Everyone Expects You to Have Your Life Figured Out at 18... | Savannah Tannerites | Dash of Pink #61

That's cool.

I am a college hater.

See, a lot of the people in our family are.

Yeah, I'm a college hater, although I mostly hate this college experience because she's not going to be five minutes away.

I love the fact that she's doing it because she's passionate about it because the amount of conversations that Ty and I have had about, like, family members that have told us that they don't – we're not going to get into that, but, like, conversations that we've had of, like, we – love supporting people like that's mine and ty's favorite thing to do we tell cousins all the time we were just barely um we went to a mission farewell of one of our cousins and she knows where we are at like with our religious standpoint or whatever and we don't like 100 agree on all things but The fact that we could go there and 190% support her because she's passionate about it was so cool.

And

so Ty and I talk about your college experience a lot because Ty's like, I would never do college.

Ty's like, I had a lot of people and family members who were like, he had family members signing him up for colleges without him knowing about it.

That's crazy.

Because they wanted what's best for him and he didn't want anything to do with it.

And he's like, I just, if you don't know what you're doing... and you just sign up for college it's so hard because what if you don't end up wanting to do that for the rest of your life

what if

you're passionate about something right now and then like end up 10 years down the road being like oh I don't care about this but that's what you've set your bank on for the rest of your life yeah But what we like is that you're doing it because you're passionate about it.

You're not sitting and saying, well, I have to have a career and I have to have a bachelor's degree and I have to have this to be able to have this.

And I can't be successful without college.

You're going in and saying, no, I'm passionate about this thing and I really love this thing.

So therefore I'm going to learn about it.

And I think that's really cool.

And I admire that.

And there's a lot of different things that like I've always said that I think would be fun to go to college for and Like, you going, actually, like, maybe sit and be like, maybe I could take online classes whenever my life kind of, like, dips down just for fun, you know? So I love that you're doing it because you're passionate about it.

Going back to graduating, what did you expect adulthood to feel like? You kind of already talked about that a little bit, but, like, did you have, like, a broad, like, what you expected adulthood to feel like?

I... again i thought i'd have it figured out i was like oh yeah i'm gonna know and i'm gonna just be like yeah i'll be so much more motivated and so much more just like i'm gonna go like i was like oh i'm an adult i can just go do stuff whenever you know and i'm like yes i've been doing more stuff and being a little bit more motivated but that's me pushing myself to do so right um but i did expect to have a lot more figured out and it's like i expected it to be more You know, like more something.

Yes.

And it's just not.

Like you kind of just get there and it's like, wait,