I Finally Became a Mom… But I Wasn't Prepared for Postpartum

What happens after infertility… when you finally become a mom, but still find yourself struggling emotionally? In this episode, Blair shares her journey through recurrent loss, IVF, egg donation, and the unexpected reality of postpartum anxiety after finally welcoming her son, Archie. As a labor and delivery nurse, Blair spent years helping other families welcome babies into the world while navigating her own heartbreak behind the scenes. She opens up about repeated miscarriages, the emotional decision to use an egg donor, the moment she “just knew” her donor was meant to be part of their story, and the complicated emotions that came after finally becoming a mother. This conversation explores: • infertility and recurrent pregnancy loss • choosing egg donation • postpartum anxiety after infertility • the pressure to feel “grateful” after finally having a baby • learning to ask for help and give yourself grace • hope, resilience, and continuing to be brave through motherhood Whether you’re walking through infertility, postpartum, egg donation, or simply trying to navigate motherhood honestly, this episode is a reminder that you are not alone.