David Tutera on Celebrity Weddings, Bridezillas & Saying Yes to Everything | Coffeez Ep. 311

And you opened up the podcast with, with that.

You said, you know, even, "I just walk up to a random stranger, and if I sense that their energy is off, I walk up to them and try to make them feel better."

That's what I do.

So give me-

That's why we love you.

Yeah, that's why we love you.

So give me some illustrations so the audience knows, like, how can you make people feel better?

I was, um...

This is a hard one.

I'll, I'll try to see if this, um, makes sense.

Uh, I was in an airport, um, in JFK.

I was with my family, and over to my right was, um...

I could see him from here, and he was an agitated man, and he was i- I don't know what part of the world he came from, but he was not a night ma- nice person just by looking at him.

And then there was, he was trying to get his ticket to get to his destination, so the woman had to come out from the other side of the, side of the desk, and she came out, he went to her, and she, he started screaming at the woman because she was a Mexican.

And screaming and screaming and screaming.

And he was, I don't know what background he came from.

So she started crying.

This woman was probably 60 years old working at the behind of the counter at JFK.

So I went up to her and I said, "Ma'am, I could see you crying.

There's no reason for you to be crying right now.

You're doing a great job.

You're doing a great job.

Why don't you just go back behind the counter and go find somebody else to help you right now?" And she did, and then they came out and I gave her a big hug.

I gave her a big hug to calm her down.

There's no reason why somebody has to ruin somebody else's life for no fucking reason.