Aug 13, 2026 · 1 hr 8 min · 12 segments
\*\*a porn-alternative, tinder date research, why “consensual non-consent” is the most submitted and most triggering fantasy, responsive vs. spontaneous desire and what it means for foreplay, the…
Dóri VargaHost
So you keep, I feel like circulating around talking about dating and how dating has changed or what is the nature of dating and how do we do that here, depending on where we are or who we are.
Because, you know, the work that you do, to me, it seems that the work that you do allows you to get a pretty deep insight into... almost like you're at all times in research mode, what's going on, what's going on in our psyche, what's going on in the scene, in the erotic scene, you know, what is happening.
And I'm sure this is obviously you do this because you're really interested in this.
So I'm sure outside of your work, you also do stuff that whatever that is, that is bringing you more awareness about what is going on.
where are we at right now from your perspective? You know, what do you see? Where are we at? And how do we still find deep, intimate spaces with people specifically for romance and sex? How does that work these days? Yeah.
Well, what I see, and at least in New York, um, but I think it is a lot of major cities.
This is the way I just see so many of my wonderful, beautiful women friends, um, who are single going on dates and really just not finding, uh, men who are on their same level.
So you keep, I feel like circulating around talking about dating and how dating has changed or what is the nature of dating and how do we do that here, depending on where we are or who we are.
Because, you know, the work that you do, to me, it seems that the work that you do allows you to get a pretty deep insight into... almost like you're at all times in research mode, what's going on, what's going on in our psyche, what's going on in the scene, in the erotic scene, you know, what is happening.
And I'm sure this is obviously you do this because you're really interested in this.
So I'm sure outside of your work, you also do stuff that whatever that is, that is bringing you more awareness about what is going on.
where are we at right now from your perspective? You know, what do you see? Where are we at? And how do we still find deep, intimate spaces with people specifically for romance and sex? How does that work these days? Yeah.
Well, what I see, and at least in New York, um, but I think it is a lot of major cities.
This is the way I just see so many of my wonderful, beautiful women friends, um, who are single going on dates and really just not finding, uh, men who are on their same level.
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