Sexual guilt

And to think outside of those, that box, to think more of, like, I wanna play, I wanna have fun, I wanna feel good, I wanna be desired.

So what is, what is sexual shame, if you could put your, um, angle on what that means-

Mm-hmm

... and, and how is it quietly affecting women's relationships?

Yeah, we need to be like, hey,

it's okay to have these conversations about sex because then you take away the sexual shame.

I have clients that even have shame for having sex with their wife.

Hmm.

You, you know, I, I hear a lot about that, is that, um, coming back to identity, like I grew up Catholic, and I grew up with a lot of fear.

And I grew up with a lot of sexual shame.

Mm-hmm.

And it became my identity because it's what I learned how to be a human.

Excuse me? You were there, brain.

Sometimes this is called sexual shame.

The shame is different from regret.

Regret is useful information.

Those are very different sentences.

And I really want to make this distinction.

Rejecting sexual shame doesn't mean you need to become sexually adventurous, okay? This isn't congratulations, ladies.

Feminism requires a threesome by Friday.