You know, it's been more like an all-encompassing shift on how to think about people, the world, how to live.

This one I have a very clear answer.

Um, and it's that I've become a more compassionate person.

Definitely to my kid and her experience of the world, and just getting outside of my own head and being in her shoes has definitely made me just feel a lot more empathy and connection with her.

Of course, as I've been doing that, [laughs] I've begun to feel all of the normal, the normal stages of guilt about all the years that I didn't have that lens for her.

And so it's forced me into a space where I have, I have to be the compassionate person for myself as well, and have that empathy for how hard this has been, how hard it continues to be, and how grateful I am that we do have [laughs] this new lens and new perspective moving forward.

But then it also has completely changed my perspective on how I see the world.

Like, it's unfair, and it's not right, and it shouldn't be this hard, and it is, but we can still do it.