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Stephanie Lammers

Stephanie Lammers

Founder and VP of Wildfire Leadership, speaker, author of "Discovering Joy in Your Lane," and leadership coach; wife of author Bill Lammers and co-founder of Xperience Church.

Sep 21, 2026

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Of course, yeah.
0:39
And then all of a sudden I realized these are those moments and things that God is truly flipping the script in our own lives as parents.
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17 MINS LATER

17:54
Mm
17:54
... and walks in the door with her kids, who are loud and disruptive, and immediately she realizes, "Wait, I was patient in the coffee shop, but now I'm not so patient." And I think that story struck me, because it's in these moments that we realize often, yes, there are ...
18:13
We need to train and teach the kids.
18:16
But often, God is really teaching and training us as parents-
0:28
It was a breakthrough moment for me to learn how to reframe the way that I saw things in my life.
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What does flip the script actually mean? These lies become scripts that we say, but knowing how do we truly change that narrative, that scripting.
0:44
Fear can try to grip us as parents as well, and it's like, no, the Holy Spirit empowers us to truly flip that and actually look at it as an opportunity to help our children grow in the very things that God actually has gifted them with.
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Yeah
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... you know, narratives that we can often speak over ourselves, even if it's something that we heard as a kid or just created in our own mind.
15:41
And being able to identify that that lie of, "Oh, I'm not good enough," or, "I'm not as smart as," fill in the blank, whatever the narrative- Right

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