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Bill Lammers

Bill Lammers

Founder & CEO of Wildfire Leadership and author of "Flip the Script: Set Your Mind Free," a leadership coach and speaker based in Charleston, South Carolina.

Sep 21, 2026

4:49
[laughs]
4:50
Um, so we have Stephanie's mom lived about eight houses away.
4:54
We kinda lived out towards the countryside.
4:57
And our youngest son, he was, uh, driving our tractor, you know, along the woods, and, uh, kinda just leaves.
5:05
And about 10 minutes later he's coming back with this, uh, the trailer, a trailer on the back of his tractor.
5:11
And I could tell from a distance as I was seeing the trailer kinda wobbling, uh, back and forth, I'm like, "Steph," I said, "That's the trailer that your mom and dad had up in the back of their barn for 20-plus years." And I said, "He's gonna wanna bring this thing and try to, [laughs] try to fix this thing.
5:32
There's no way.

16 MINS LATER

21:49
[coughs]
10:04
Mm.
10:04
You know? And so I remember getting the ball and just dribbling down the court, and that was kinda racing in my mind.
10:12
Then I get to the free throw line, and I was actually, like, I felt like a robot.
10:19
Like, I was actually changing the way that I was even shooting the shot that I had shot for repetitions of hundreds and hundreds of times.
10:28
So anyways, um, after the game, it was one of the darker seasons of my life, you know, that evening, and my mom approached me and she could tell I was going through a major battle in my mind.
10:43
And she said, um, "Are you ready to break free of this in your mind?" And I said, "Yes." [laughs] And she goes, "I wanna help you identify some of the lies that you're believing, and I wanna show you what to do with those lies."
12:04
How, how did this progression go?
12:05
Yeah.

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