Right

"... don't stop dating your wife." Well, for us, the problem with that was we had kids right away, so that meant a paid babysitter.

The custom that everybody presented to us was you go to dinner and you go to a movie.

There, you've got a date night.

But then you come home pretty tired.

Usually Glenn would have to drive the babysitter home.

And then I'm like, "Oh, well, I n- I need to, you know, put out." I mean, we gotta do something sexual 'cause it, I mean, my thank you is that, right?

Mm.

How the heck do we start that?

Well, even as we were talking, I was thinking, I appreciate so much, you know, what, what Bridget you're doing with your whole, uh, just work, you know, that you're, and, and I know I love that you and Lauren have partnered to even bring a podcast where this stuff is talked about.

Like, I think that is what, you know, as a single person, if we'd had a Bridget in our life who was out there talking about desire, talking like it was all so taboo.

And, and I don't, and I, you know, and I think that there's It's interesting to me.

Josh Harris wrote a book, I Kissed Dating Goodbye.

And now he has like renounced his book, like gone opposite in such an extreme way.

And I don't know a whole lot about that.

Wow, that's pretty powerful.